I am a full time firefighter in Durham County, North Carolina. I am good old country boy from the mountains of Va. I am educated with a degree in Business Administration. I am kind hearted and care a lot for people. I am easy to please. I don't have the 6 pack of abs( how many do at this age.lol) and i do have a little bulge in the stomach. I am striving toward improved fitness. I love to do just about anything, and will try new, interesting things. I love to travel, which i do a lot on my weekends off, especially like to go up to my place at Lake Gaston, where i can hide from the stresses of the world, and have fun all weekend long. I love to swim, motor boating, and i love to cook and entertain my friends up at the lake. I am a confident and responsible man. I carry myself well and i always look up, never down. I can dress up for a black tie event, and be in my shorts and t-shirt having just as much fun. I love to laugh and cut up, yet i can be serious in a heart beat when required. I love to dance,cook, play darts and pool(thou i am not very good at pool). I love to showboat my date, as if she is the only one around. I am a hopeless romantic and putting you first, above all things gives me pleasure. I would love to spoil you, and show you what a southern gentleman is really like. I love good conversation and fine wine while we talk. I am a good listener, and value the same in a partner. I will never be disrespectful. Mutual respect is so important to a good relationship. I need someone to be there for me as much as i can be there for you. I have a lot to offer a good women and i really want to share my life with the right one.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a friend/lover and activities buddy to do different things. A long distance relationship could be fine, and I certainly don't mind traveling for the right lady. I am looking for a women who doesn't mind being called and told she is awesome!

I don't want anyone to be hurt, but if you are looking for a fast runby, I am not your man. I don't like typing, i write too much as it is now. I want to hear a real voice, and not be waiting for days for a response. I am not a freak. So if your interested let's talk.

I would greatly appreciate, if you are not interested, sending me a brief reply saying so.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
Lewis

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
bon jovi

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
none

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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