This media format is simply a new way of quickly identifying someone that you may be attracted to. So here's the straight lowdown on guys and what we think. We all have our opinions, I get it. This is simply candid, truthful talk from a guy who has asked countless male friends about this. Like it or not, here are the facts. You may or may not agree. MARRIAGE/ROMANCE: 99% of guys here are not on AFF for that. It's just a fact. Go to Match, POF, eHarmony. Save yourself the time and aggravation. This is an adult site for mostly potential sexual encounters. I'm just sayin' FACE SHOT: If you are sharing yours.... first and foremost, when you are putting yourself out there, give your all. Show your best. A smile, make-up and having your hair look decent....as shallow as it sounds...really makes a difference. We all have the early in the morning look, as though we got hit by a truck....but that is NO way to attract guys. Trust me...we all talk and it's a 100% agreement that the "no make-up" look is a big fat fail. AGE APPROPRIATE CLOTHES: Have you ever been at a mall or airport and seen someone who is 70 and is dressed like a 20 year old. We have all thought..."really" Well, we think that on here too. BATHROOM SELFIES: No, we don't want to see your cluttered counters, boxes of tampons and 5 different hairbrushes and curling irons. Take a photo in an area that best reflects you. And please...no work bathroom photos. That makes you look like you are a janitor in a mall. SHAVE OR NOT SHAVED: According to most guys now, the shaved thing is starting to get old. We all remember the Playboy's and Penthouse's of the day and that was hot. Women had hair on their units and it's normal. Seeing a 45 year old woman trying to look like a 10 year old girl down there is....well....ecckkk. I'm a youthful early 50s. I'm looking for a mature lady who wants companionship,friendship and intimacy i'm 6ft 200, fit and very sensual. Heavily into oral, foreplay, kissing, touching and leaving the lights on !

My Ideal Person Someone down to earth, friendly and sexy. Honesty and a great sense of humor is important too This is an adult site but friendship is very important