I have an androgynous look : ) sexually submissive looking for some holiday fun Genuinely passive and soft spoken in person, a bit stronger online vocally : ) but I have made a sincere effort to find my voice in person and ask for what I want Fetishes: impact play (hand and otk spanking, belt) breath play, D/s...a few others nothing illegal and I am interested in consensual non consent with the right person Challenge: conversations about decentering whiteness and decolonization as it pertains to online surveillance or BDSM sex slavery; acknowledging past sexual slavery histories of white daughters sold to men by their fathers in exchange for land and title; past royalty (King Henry) and the psychological impact of culturally acceptable transfer of ownership of white females (How could you be so selfish, do you not know what this could do for our family?); consensual BDSM and the current accepted belief BDSM is not sexual deviancy; Christian Domestic Discipline (spanking); the taming of the shrew; modern day pop culture (Kanye West) that encourages women of colour to "go ahead girl, go ahead get down" (get dirty) because your man is leaving your "ASS" for a white girl (Golddigger). As for representation, I grew up reading Dick and Jane On that note, 2004 Wayan brothers white chicks, I am trying to find a single person who considered that abusive....it seems Taylor Swift is an easy target as most white females are without acknowledging the age group who votes or who she sings to. I assume the Wayan brothers and Kanye have all been told to stay away from and that Kanye was instructing people of colour not to let that happen again.