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Tongue vs cock
Posted:Jan 27, 2017 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2018 5:19 pm
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Happy New Year everyone!!!

It occurred to me that many of the guys profiles go on and on about how good their tongue is ... blah blah blah blah

So why is it you always see cock pics but no tongue pics?

Sexy
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No nonsense
Posted:Dec 22, 2016 9:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2017 10:07 am
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Merry Christmas everyone. Thank you for reading my blog posts and thank you more for your comments. I love the feedback.

Sadly a year ago our dear friends exited the lifestyle. It was sudden and we respected them so we didn't ask why. We miss them and their couples only parties. They promoted their invitation only bring a snack ... no door fee parties as "no nonsense".

R used to get everyone's attention and say stuff like "we all know why we are here". Then everyone would laugh. Clothes would fly off and have a couple of hours of fun.

So while it is fun to go to dinner, go to movies, go boating, have a bbq, etc. In the world of hot sex ... those are nonsense. There is a time and place for everything.

Peace on Earth Goodwill towards men.

Smiles,
Sexy
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Photos
Posted:Aug 21, 2016 7:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2020 9:18 pm
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I need to update my photos...
I like classy photos with a hint of seduction or maybe a lot of seduction.
I prefer to leave lots to the imagination.

Any ideas?

Also for photos I like to look at guys that have some interesting photos are face photos perhaps travel photos.
The most hated are the guys pull down the pants in the bathroom and snap a selfie of that favorite appendage. Please don't get me wrong I like to have some ideas of what I might be unwrapping . I really like to have a email or 2 before the horn shows up.

Just my thought on this Sunday evening

Sexy!
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Disrespectful Guys
Posted:Aug 14, 2016 11:58 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2016 6:59 pm
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Well ... shit.

We met two very disrespectful guys in a row this week. I don't ask a lot from anyone. I really don't care about a guys relationship status, or in general their looks ... but for fuck's sake if you post a picture that makes you look height weight proportional and you represent yourself as "athletic" ... and then you show up and you are easily 75 saggy pounds over your posted weight... and you think I am going to be attracted to you and not realize you are attempting to shit in my face ... good god.

Hey that was a rant.

Yes my bf very politely kicked them (he is always and ambassador) out and one had hurt feelings and the other was angry and texted we could kiss his ass ... Lmfao ... WTF is going on with some of these guys??? And please don't give me the liberal crap about I should be kind to fat lying assholes shit ... ugh. Don't we all get enough disrespect at work? Aren't we already having our intelligence insulted daily by the media? Don't we already get enough exaggeration and lies from the politicians? Good God I come to the lifestyle for fun and satisfaction not more of the same in our troubled culture.

OK ... I feel better.

Is this an isolated thing or has the world suddenly gone nuts????? Man I know women lie about their age and weight but the guys??? Since when??? Very pathetic.

Smiles,
Sexy
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Being flakey
Posted:Jun 13, 2016 8:27 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2017 5:01 pm
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If you contact someone asking

"Are you having a party this weekend?"

and you have no intention of attending if you are invited. And, that would include excuses like ... I have family visiting ... I have an emergency ... I will be watching my favorite TV show ... I have to take a nap ... I don't know and that is the last you are heard from ... then you are being flakey.

I no longer respond to the questions about what I am doing this weekend. Just tell me if you are available and we can go from there.

Are others experiencing this type of nonsense?

Thanks!!!
Sexy
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The young guys
Posted:May 15, 2016 3:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2019 9:26 am
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Perhaps some of you would care to weigh in about the younger guys on the site.

I am contacted frequently by guys under 30. Very sweet guys. And, some of them I get to meet and most all of those I meet I get to enjoy. Ya I know I seem greedy but I just love men of all ages and the young guys are so eager to play and find their sexual selves.

But I have a concern about the young guys who contact me then prior to some meaningful dialogue they disappear. And this is in varying degrees. Most don't make it to a first phone call. My bf says that the site and the internet in general teaches many of the young guys how to be incapable of actual contact with women. They get excited when they get a response then they jerk off and then lose interest. It seems like a shame.

I was just wondering what you guys think?

Wishing we could all have a party.
Sexy
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Happy Spring
Posted:Mar 27, 2016 10:51 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 8:15 pm
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I love the springtime it seems to open the sexy vibes!
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Patience and sharing.
Posted:Dec 14, 2015 10:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2016 11:40 am
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I hope everyone is having a great holiday season. We sure are.

We have a guy that comes to each of our parties. I really enjoy this guys personality. He has been in the lifestyle for a long time. Guys could learn so much from him not just how he pleases but how he is very respectful to others. He stays in touch but never tries to invite himself. He is considerate of everyone's feelings. He shares really well. And his latest is to suggest a couple that would like to join in the multiple man experience. To sum up he is patient and sharing. How sweet. I would to find more like him!

Happy Holidays!!!
Sexy
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Pounding
Posted:Dec 7, 2015 2:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2015 10:23 am
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Happy Holidays everyone. This is my favorite time of the year and I love family and friends and all the gatherings. I hope your holidays are wonderful.

I just went to a party this Saturday night and saw some guys I have not seen for a couple of years ... no offense intended but some of you guys need to hear it ... you need to lose some weight. My experience has been that the guys who are overweight way under perform the guys who are height weight proportional.

My latest fantasy is to find some sweet guys who take up the challenge and lose 40 or 50 pounds ... you know who you are ... then my bf arranges a play party after they have taken off the weight ... and at the party the guys get really freaky and perform like porn stars with me and my girlfriend!!!

Happy Holidays!!!!
Sexy
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Holiday cheer or holiday blues?
Posted:Nov 23, 2015 10:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2015 11:22 am
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I want to thank all the cool guys that have come to our multiple men gatherings this year. I love you guys. What nice, fun, street smart, sharing and caring guys.

Will it be cheer or blues for you this holiday season? Already I am finding a disturbing number of guys who are down in the dumps. That is your choice.

But the good news is that there are lots of guys who welcome the season with all of its joy. Those guys are on the list to come to the next gathering and enjoy the pleasures of sharing.

Lets put some cheer into the holidays!!!

Very horny this season.

Smiles,
Sexy
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Quality vs Quantity
Posted:Oct 22, 2015 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2015 10:37 am
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Each person has their own definition of quality. I think generally quality is where you have chemistry with a partner. If you had chemistry with a lot of people then would that be quantity? Would that be a bad thing? Would you turn down great chemistry because last night you had great chemistry with someone else and you don't want to judge yourself?

It seems to me that all the worry about quantity is over done. I think there is never too much quality!!!

Anyone else have thoughts on this?

love you,
Sexy
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Where is the center of the universe?
Posted:Sep 16, 2015 6:49 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2015 11:23 am
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It was a great relief for me when I found out I was not the center of the universe. Now I can enjoy the moments. I wish others would realize that they too are not the center of the universe.
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Respect ... am I asking too much?
Posted:Aug 12, 2015 7:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2015 6:28 am
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Is it too much to expect that someone read your profile prior to sending you an email?

I recently received a nice "copy paste" email from a guy with a nice profile. His profile had nice face pics. To be honest I found immediate attraction. His email said the usual "after reading your profile" clause. But his email did not indicate his first car, which I request responders provide in their first email so I know they read my profile. His profile indicated he was looking only for women ... So that is ok but mine is group oriented. Anyway I responded "please read my profile" His response to that was "I told you I did do you have a face pic?" It was a let down. An I asking too much?
Sexy
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