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Sexually Hungry
Posted:Sep 17, 2016 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2016 10:52 am
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I've gone very long periods of time without any sexual contact so I don't understand why now, it feels like a lifetime if I don't come more than a few times a week.

My sexual appetite is on STARVATION and I want it all the time. I find myself checking out the gas guy , men on the bus, guys in the supermarket - Im thinking about sex constantly.

I never had fantasies but now i cant stop myself. Its almost embarrassing to admit how horny i usually am.
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It's okay I'm safe WTH?
Posted:Jul 9, 2016 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2016 5:34 pm
13549 Views

I know that I've been out of the game a while but what part of safety is meeting a person on a sex site?

I have been contacted by a few men who tell me how much they want to CUM inside of me. That's not sexy to me. Telling me about your vasectomy doesn't help. What about std'so? Older Hookups did not require any health checks when I joined so I don't understand the illusion of safe.

I am safe and plan to stay that way, so please skip my profile if condoms make you less hard or cause you skin irritation because weird std's can have that affect on me.
7 Comments
Transaction or SEX
Posted:Jun 10, 2016 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2016 7:55 pm
11273 Views

There are beautiful women who do Porn, who escort, etc., I don't judge but I'm not a professional anything so I'm confused. I know this is controversial but here goes...

I've had messages left on my page or even made to me on chat about hookers or that I should get a job. I have not asked anyone for anything and am upfront about my job situation. I'm broke, never played this down.

As a MAN you don't want to pay for sex or break the law - I get it. As a WOMAN, I don't want to be taken advantage of or break the law - get that.

What am I to do? I don't have a job but do want sex. I don't want to have random men picking me up but can't afford to pay for gas, tolls or whatever to meet men either. I want sex! Where is the line? If I mention that I don't have gas or whatever, I upset the person. If I attempt to meet someone and can't make it safely back home, was it worth it? My sense of independence and pride (still a little left), won't allow me to ask for anything so I end up not getting anything.

NO, I don't feel safe meeting someone for the first time at a residence. NO, I'm not hooking up in a car!

But I don't understand why it is okay to pay for access to this site but invest nothing when you find someone you like, especially if its ongoing/mutual? It's like catch and release fishing - is there a point? I have a lot to learn!
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Why, so ANGRY?
Posted:Jun 10, 2016 3:55 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2016 6:57 pm
11014 Views

What I don't understand are the men (women) here that view my cam, chat with me or email me and then get angry because I have not had sex with them. I am not rude so I respond to email and am cordial; I truly do want someone so yes I'm willing to meet. HOWEVER, there are requirements that are more than just "have a penis, willing to fuck". I want to feel safe and not like prey, I want to be attracted to my partner (which does not mean looks) and I want to feel desired. Just because you LIKE a photo or type some sexual comment that I respond to does not mean that you are entitled. I came here to interact with men and find someone for the purpose of sex but just because you have commented or complimented me does not guarantee sex. I get to choose!
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6 month Dull-a versary!
Posted:May 30, 2016 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2016 6:12 pm
11508 Views

Damn near 6 months in and haven't found what I want or what wants me. I have been able to release my inhibitions which may be good if I ever have sex again. I'm no longer shy about my body, as imperfect as it may be. Love it or LEAVE IT, I say!

I wish that I would have found a man to make my toes curl and heart pump faster to have when I want but that has not happened. I still don't have consistent sex although I met one of the most charming men in creation. He has possibly been the best part of my time here and the orgasms he provided.

Maybe in another 6 months I will have found someone who enjoys my still so tight pussy. I still got a chance to break my standing record of 5 times in one year, it's only mid-year.
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FWB - Am I doing it wrong?
Posted:Mar 20, 2016 5:19 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 5:58 pm
13983 Views

Did I understand FWB wrong? Friends with mutual benefits is what I thought this to be. I'm horny, you're horny, have condoms will fuck. What's the problem?

I don't want a relationship but a connection is nice. That way, when I want to have sex it's real desire and not just animal instinct. Apparently, a connection is more of a liability in a FWB situation. I guess I'm not cut out for it.

My heart feels just like my body feels and though I don't dream of marrying or finding a knight in shining latex here, I sincerely want just one man that I can have sex with. Why is it so hard to find him? I've let down my restrictions and tossed my schoolgirl virtue to the wind so why isn't this easier.

I'm not going to have sex with just anyone but human is nice. It's such a catch 22; I don't want to know someone like a girlfriend but I want to feel like their woman when I'm with them. I don't want to fall in love and get married but I want to feel loved and like my loyalty is appreciated. No games or trickery but I like you, you like me and every minute we spend together will be phenomenal and then we go home, full stop.

When you contact me it should be to give the location of our next meeting, don't ask me about anything that you truly don't care about. Gifts and sex.

Again, I'm not trying to win a sexual award or break any records, I want sex just not with everyone that emails and chats with me. I'm not here to fuck everyone (anyone) on Older Hookups. I want to be made to feel special in every sense of the word on a regular basis.
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I don't have a (race) TYPE
Posted:Feb 13, 2016 5:17 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 5:58 pm
13816 Views

I hate when I'm on cam or checking email and come across the question - "Do you like white cock?". I find it to be annoying and unoriginal but after hearing about some of the reactions from people of color, I understand. Fear not, I'm not one of those people.

I'm a woman and am attracted to men - that's it. I don't care what ethnicity or anything else but I'm attracted to sane men.

The things that I am attracted to are within the control of said man - for instance whether or not he's kind, knows how to make me feel desirable and doesn't smell funny. I've been attracted to tall and slim, short and stout, muscular, younger, older and different accents. I haven't been with all these types of men but I have been turned on by them. I'm sexual and if I wasn't so reserved I may have tried more of a variety - I'm not so old so there's time.

Bottom line is I'm not prejudice against ethnicity.
6 Comments
What to Do?
Posted:Jan 23, 2016 9:54 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 5:59 pm
14562 Views

I decided to actually USE this site because when I go to other dating sites, the men lie or whatever attempting to get laid. I feel like this site removes the need to lie, I want sex, you want sex, let's come to terms and do IT repeatedly!

Simple enough however, it has not worked out so far because they're lying with their pants down, either about their relationships, situations and even their endowment. LYING is the biggest turn OFF for me! I've put it all out there, in the blogs (embarrassing) , in my profile and my pics are more intimate than a gyno exam so you don't need to lie.

We don't know each other and when you lie about one small thing (age, having a job, being in a relationship/married), maybe you're lying about the bigger things that actually matter (drug and disease free, my safety). I'm not lying so please you don't either.

Maybe I'm the dud and in addition to relaxing the sex and relationship requirement, I should relax some other rules too. I want passionate sex and that requires something more than me being wet and you sticking it in. Maybe this is not the site for me because even easy is complicated.

I've chatted, given my number to a few but so far, I'm still on this site looking.
9 Comments
Please Handle with Care
Posted:Jan 16, 2016 8:35 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2016 7:05 pm
14542 Views

"You have some very good pussy - you just need to let me fuck you real good!" said a potential ongoing sex friend before he slid his mammoth cock into me and started to pound on me. I'm a screamer but this was a different type of scream. He said, I got excited because it was so good, I didn't mean to hurt you. I would love to be fucked real good but it is not easy to have a really large penis jumping around inside my tight hole and it definitely doesn't excite me about doing it more often. I get really wet when turned on and yes, it is pretty tight, I'm upfront about that, so it is not fair to get in the moment and be fucked really fast and hard. Slow and steady wins the race.

I'm not a prude but realistically I have not given birth, I have not been in an ongoing relationship and I don't penetrate myself with toys so my pussy can seem frustratingly tight at first. I don't enjoy feeling as if I am being sliced in half and NO that will not make me want to get together again.

It's a new year and new time in my life where I am willing to have sex without a relationship and with the proper handling, everyone wins.

The proper way to handle me is to go slowly until my pussy adjusts to your size, make me cum and then give it to me a little harder in round 2. By round 3, I can probably do a lot better and keep going for a few more rounds. You will be pleasantly surprised how my body reacts to good fucking versus hard fucking.

We're grownups and we both want it BUT we both should enjoy it. So take it easy, make me cum and I will do the same for you.
4 Comments
The Horniest Train Ride
Posted:Jan 4, 2016 11:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2016 9:14 am
15314 Views

It's no secret that I've been abstaining from sex but my body is demanding some action. Case in point, today as I rode the train into Manhattan, I got so turned on as my erect nipples began to pierce the coat that I was wearing and catch the eye of a fellow train rider whose gazing at my breasts was so intense it was as if I could feel his eyes caressing me until I exited the train.

Upon my return from the city, the train became overly crowded and there was barely room for oxygen to flow. This did not discourage the endless squeezing into the train by the many commuters. I ended up straddling the pole and a passenger's leg while another rider landed comfortably behind me just lightly brushing my ass. As the train sped through the tunnels, it jolted and rocked me back and forth. I turned to apologize to the gentleman and he smiled softly. As the train proceeded, I felt his penis becoming erect and the soft brushes became a little more weighted.

I was shocked but became slightly aroused and planted my feet as not to lose the opportunity to feel this wonderful feeling of this gentleman's erection nonchalantly dry humping me. By the end of the ride, I could not look at him again because I know that he must have noticed the accidental brushing had slowly transitioned into deliberate gestures.

I have got to get laid before someone files charges.
5 Comments
Good girl ready to be bad - DEFINED
Posted:Jan 4, 2016 11:01 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2016 6:51 pm
14719 Views

Good = Less than 5 lovers in my lifetime; sweet, loyal and never cheated; considerate and limited sexual experience; No drama;
Girl = Female, youthful in spirit
Ready = Mind is made up; action for the right person
Bad = Out of MY ordinary experiences within limits but MUST be pleasurable for me also; Explore more sexual activities;
Disclaimer: no multiple partner encounters, threesomes, bathroom scenarios or dangerous activities; safety first!
2 Comments
Disappointment - Pussy is not on the menu!
Posted:Dec 31, 2015 5:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2016 6:59 am
15526 Views

An ex called and I wanted to have sex before the new year so I agreed to meet up. I'm all showered and shaved and on my way. Its been a while so I was ready to go upon arrival, my thong was pretty moist from the excitement of penetration. We headed to the room and I started to strip until only my thong was on. I dropped to my knees in front of this man and started to suck his already erect dick. I softly pushed him back on the bed after several minutes while his dick was still vacuum sucked between my lips. He reached down and grabbed my breasts once, rubbed my ass and moaned as I got him ready to enter my tight, wet pussy. I'm licking his balls and spitting to ensure that it is the wettest, nastiest warm up and perhaps ,he'd offer the same. I continued until he reached down and removed my thong, stating how juicy my pussy was, he started to finger my clit a bit and I came but immediately he aimed his dick at my ass. I was so very wet so he had adequate lube but this was not the desired entrée that I was looking for. However, he was totally enticed by my ass and only wanted ass play and to have anal sex. I begged and got him on his back where I was able to slide my tight pussy onto his below average sized dick and ride immediately cumming twice. It only lasted a brief time before he began trying to enter my ass again. It was really NOT good. I was so turned on and so was he but the sex was terrible!! His only desire clearly was to have his way with my ass from any position - something that we'd never done while together. I was getting angry and frustration was building as I wanted to cum and be pleased so desperately. It was not happening here and I was even hornier than when I arrived. The sheets were wet from my juices and he'd only try to penetrate my ass. I don't get it! I headed to the shower and he followed to watch me. I soaped up my body and invited him in but he just sat and watched while stroking his dick. I dropped to my knees and started to suck his dick from the shower, he began to cum while I was sucking it. I stood up and he hugged me, kissed me, pinched my nipples and told me that he'd missed me. I asked him for some of his dick in my pussy and hopped out of the shower dripping. I went to the bed and bent over and opened my pussy, he pushed his dick in and started to immediately cum again. He laid down and fell asleep. Daylight came and he had to depart to work, I asked for a little more before he left and he says "you always want more, I'm going to be late so we will get together again soon". No THANKS! I'd rather do without any sex than to have one-sided sex.
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