This is quite random..
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Posted:Feb 14, 2011 4:13 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2011 8:02 am
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I actually have a few thing in mind that I've been wanting to blog about but as things go, haven't been able to and am now undecided what to post first....
Anyways, I'm remembering last year's Valentine's day when I took a trip with this guy I was with at the time. We had booked a villa in Bali and the plan was to share the place with another couple, who were mutual friends. There's a pretty long back story leading to this but I'll leave that out. So a day before we left, he told me that one of his best friend who he's known since they were like 10 or something was visiting and he'd asked him to join us on this trip. His friend had already made plans and changed his flight and would be meeting us in Bali like a day late.
At that time, the only thing I thought of was that his friend would be a lil awkward considering he was going to be joining two couples on holiday but considering how everything was left to the last minute, I didn't put too much thought into it. So we went, and we spent 6 days there. On the second night, his friend got there and decided he slept on the couch. Considering this was a quieter part of Bali, we ended every night with a party of our own. Third night we had a few drinks and the other couple left to go back to their room to continue their party. I felt kinda bad cos I didn't want to leave his friend out alone so we continued on and as these things turn out, one thing led to another and my ex and I started first on the couch. His friend was watching for a bit then asked if he could join, which he did eventually.
So for the remaining days and nights, he basically moved in with us into our room, which was fine by me cos, it's not everyday that I'd get to enjoy two younger black guys  This went pretty well until like a day after we got back that I found out that my ex had baan planning this all along. Of course it was planned right? I mean, in hindsight, everything was too coincidental. Anyways, we argued and I actually told him that IF he were just to bring it up and asked, I would've been fine with it. So sparing the gory details of how one arguement lead to another, that relationship ended shortly after.
We're still friends, and we're still sexually active...but it's a different kind of relationship now. Guess the only reason I'm remembering this again is cos he's getting posted to Sydney to work and I just met him over the weekend after not being able to meet up for quite a long time, with both our schedules and all. Anyhoo..this is another random piece of info..
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Brutal honesty
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Posted:Jan 24, 2011 2:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2011 8:48 pm
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Got a looong day ahead of me today which starts friggin early cos of calls that I have to take. Damn the time difference...anyways. Was up and out early and decided to stop by a coffeeshop to get me some breakfast. I used to frequent this place up until about a month ago when I frequent this place nearer the office which is less popular and hence, less crowded.
So I went up to place my order with the lady behind the counter, who is in her 60s I think, who upon recognizing me, exclaimed in a relatively loud voice how it's been awhile since she saw me. Which I thought was nice enough of her to remember me. After 30 seconds of pleasantries she then went on to tell me, in the most earnest manner, that I've packed on a few pounds. Actually, in the most direct of translation, she said that I have "gotten fat, which is a little better but I have to be careful to not grow any fatter, lest I am married." She also added, rather blatantly, that "at least now my breasts are bigger and my hips are more pronounced..." Gotta love these "aunties". brutal honesty at its best
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My Top Gear Two Cents worth
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Posted:Jan 23, 2011 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 31, 2011 1:51 am
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Was out last Friday night with some friends and I had bumped into this guy I have an on/off relationship with. He's this guy from my old workplace that I had a thing with. ANyways, I haven't seen or spoke to him since shortly before last Christmas. So bumped into him and found out he bought himself a new Porsche. I attributed it to mid-life crisis
So he got himself a new toy and asked if he could give me a ride, which was good timing too cos I had already made plans for later into the night. It was a black Porsche. Ok, I'm not exactly sure what the model is but it was fast, that is IF we could manage a long stretch of road given traffic conditions here. It was a nice enough ride, considering I have never rode in one til this point.
The main gripe I have is, its not even that comfortable. Its fast, but its not the fastest car I've driven in. It's low and the seats are kinda leaning back an angle...if you know what I mean. Which is kind of...I'm struggling to find an appropriate word here...inconvenient, especially cos I was in a pretty short skirt. I mean, you really can't cover up in that seat, kinda like sitting in a really low beanbag. Flashing everyone everytime I get in and out of the car is one thing, but those seats can't be good for your back right? I'm just assuming...
I guess all that leads down to a heck of a lot of money to throw for a ride that is not too comfy...then again, if you have that kinda cash..
Oh well, just my top gear, two-cents worth
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Reminiscing: My FIrst Time
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Posted:Jan 16, 2011 9:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 8:10 pm
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Am sitting in the office not feeling very inspired (surprise surprise ) so figured I'd add another long, looong overdue post. Was reading a couple of blogs while I was in the meeting earlier (cos I'm such a noble employee) and I got inspired to share this 
My first time was actually with another girl. Of course, for those of you who know me, you already know that I started out with girls before moving on to the hairier kind Ha..
Anyways, I was saying - I was a full fledged 13yr-old at the time. Went over to a friend's place in the early afternoon cos we were supposed to go out in the evening. At the time, my parents only allowed me over to her place cos she was a year older than I was, for one, and that our parents kinda knew each other (we attended the same dance class since we were younger) and also, we lived not too far from each other.
I was hanging out in her room, talking, if i remember correctly and she was getting ready when we heard her mom leaving the house. We didn't think too much into it then. Only when we had wanted to leave about an hour later did we realize that her mom had locked the main gate and we didn't have the keys, so we were locked in.
I remember, quite fondly, raiding the fridge, trying on make-up and clothes to kill time. I remember it being quite fun haha..anyhow. So we were trying on her clothes when she passed me one of her older dance uniform, which she had outgrown, to try on. It was a short, flared maroon dress, much like a ballet tutu, oddly, that you'd have to wear tights under (which we didn't bother at the time). She went to put on hers while I was left in her room to change, which i did. She came back changed and showed me moves that she'd learned and I pointed out laughing that she didn't have underwear on.
She wrestled me to the ground, both of us still laughing hysterically, when I found myself pinned under her with her sitting on my lower stomach. She stared at me for a couple of seconds, pinned both my hands above me, leaned forward and kissed me. Ha..not my first kiss, but well..moving one
We were laughing, kissing and laughing when I realized she was rubbing herself on my belly. I didn't ask her what she was doing but I remember stopping and just watching her. SHe asked if I wanted to see and i just nodded. So she pulled her skirt up and continued rubbing. I think after awhile she reached behind her and I felt her hand on my snatch. She was rubbing on it for a few minutes before she got up, pulled my underwear off and slid a few fingers in me. So there we go - first penetration, first cum with someone else
We continued seeing each other (I guess you can call it 'seeing') for 3-4 years after that, although we've had our fair share of partners in between. I also remember feeling jealous when I saw her with others for awhile after that. Ha...ahh...the joys of youth
Thanks for reading, thanks for sharing.
Gotta get back to work 
C'ya
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Haaapy Holidays ALL!!
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Posted:Dec 23, 2010 11:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2011 12:36 am
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Ookaaay...I haven't been blogging for a reallly long while now and I'm not really sure how to start.
SOo...I'll just keep it simple and wish one and all a Merry Christmas and, a Ha-ppy New...Yeeeear..
Don't drink and drive, if you should pass out, do so in the presence of someone you trust, and, let's hope everyone gets laid...at least
Happy Holidays all.
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Bad ideas are difficult to say no to
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Posted:Aug 4, 2010 3:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2010 11:26 pm
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What a week. And it's not even the weekend yet...this is gonna be challenging.
A few of us gathered over at a friend's place last Saturday to basically hang out. One of my housemate has her parents over visiting so I figured I needed the space. We were there early Saturday morning and were just lazing around when the sun came out in the afternoon. Am not sure who but one of us had the smart idea of taking this opportunity to get a tan. Which led us to realize that we didn't pack out swimsuits. Which led another to suggest we tan nude cos there was enough space in her balcony and we were pretty high up. That actually made sense, at the time, so thats what we did.
Dumb idea one:
We didn't have sunblock so we dug around and came up with olive oil (ok, NOT the ones for cooking, in case you were wondering). Couple of hours under the afternoon sun, we got tanned alright...we also got friggin burnt. It's not the kind of sun burnt that peels (at least not yet)...i don't think..but it smarts
My shoulders, face, chest..its still reddish, even my thighs are sore. But i think the worst off are my nipples. Pain. :S So from now on, no sunblock, no goin out in the sun.
Bad idea two:
Met up friends for dinner last night and should have left after. BUT, oh no...as these things go, we went out for after dinner drinks, then from club to club, and it turned out to be a full blown bar-hop, which ended at 3am, leading me to get home bout 4am, and to bed close to 5am. Could have called in sick, realy wanted to, but I can't cos got a day full of meetings and will be stuck in the damn office til abt 8pm cos I got a conf call. Bad idea two: going out drinking on a weeknight, the day before a loong day. Which leads to:
Bad idea three:
In my haste and scattered brain from less than 2hrs of sleep, i was rushing this morning and had asked one of my housemates to help dig thru my wardrobe and pick out something for me to wear, which, in her own goodness, she did. I should have protested more adamantly but in the mad rush, i did not and have now gone through a somewhat awkward and looong day in a skirt too short and inappropriate for the office. My boss even asked if I was planning to play tennis after work. Don't you just love snide remarks from bosses.. :S
And, its only a Wednesday. Yay.
Gotta go grab sometin to eat before my damn call.
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Sex: help or hinder?
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Posted:Jul 29, 2010 2:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2011 7:02 pm
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Been a loong while since my last post and bear with me, I got a few things to get off my chest. Attended a colleague's b'day drinks last friday evening after work. We're just colleagues so I wasn't expecting to stay super late, so I made my own plans.
Earlier in the day, I had read my friend's blog on her latest sexcapcade, which was rather interesting so I guess that must have been what got me started. Was actually in the mood for a lil more drinks and some dancing, and oddly, no one else wanted to go so I called up an ex (this 21yr old Nigerian English guy I was seeing for a short while-long story, I'll save it for another entry ) who's always game. Met him at this club we used to go to and didn't take long before we started fondling each other, so after a few more drinks, we left.
On the way back to his place, he ran his hand up my skirt, pushed my legs apart and fingered me. And I swear, it must've been the hormones or the mood or something but I actually came twice in the cab, and it really wasn't that long a ride
For this, I think I should apologize to the cab driver cos I think I actually wet his seat. SO if you're a cab driver driving a particularly blue cab last friday, I apologize.
Spent the whole Saturday at his place and Sunday back. We send each other the odd text msg and we chat on msn quite often. Where I'm going with this:
Was chatting with some friends this week and discovered that some of them refrain from sex in their relationships, and some of them have long, beautiful relationships. And apparently it helps the relationship. So here I am thinking, I have, currently, an active enough sex life. Least I'm pretty happy with it. I have one couple, who are really nice, who include me in their sexual relationship every now and then, and I have 3 guys that I rotate regularly, u know, for variety
So between them, I get my fare share of satisfaction 
Don't get me wrong. I am definately no expert in this, nor do I want to change what I have cos I am happy with my arrangement for now.
But like I said, I know some people, guys and girls, who for their own reasons, be it to keep for special occasions, or just to not get bored, or take it for granted, who refrain from having sex all the time.
I guess I'm just curious so here's a question going out to everyone in a healthy happy relationship - do you refrain from having sex and do you think that helps your relationship?
Thanks for reading, and thank you for responding
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That Was Strange...
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Posted:May 10, 2010 1:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2010 3:51 pm
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Spent Friday night at a friend's place (we've been seeing each other for a bit but its not "exclusive" exclusive so for that, let's just refer to him as friend ) over the weekend and he had to run off to work on Saturday so I pretty much lounged around his place half of Saturday.
We went out for dinner and drinks after work on Friday evening and then straight to his place so I didn't have anything else to change into after I showered in the morning, so, since there was no one else, I lounged around his place nude. I was hanging around (pardon the pun ) for awhile when I realised he had a treadmill and a stationary bike plus a bench and some weights in one of his rooms, which he converted into like a workout room. There was no one, SO, I figured I'd give them a go with no clothes on. ANd the whole experience was kinda weird :S
The treadmill took a lil getting used to, with no shoes and all the jiggling It was fine after awhile but still, that didn't last too long. Sitting on the bike was really, not comfortable at all. LOL
I worked up a bit of a sweat, but that was due mainly to the friggin humidity and heat here. All in all, not productive at all, but I have to admit, quite funny
Not sure what else to update so I guess I will leave you with that. Be back soon
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A birthday, skinny dipping, a proposal and bit of a surprise
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Posted:Mar 11, 2010 3:56 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2010 8:48 pm
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A friend of mine from my pole dancing class celebrated her 50th birthday a few days ago and she threw a bit of a party. It was huge cos well, 50th birthday aside, she also celebrated her 25th wedding anniversary. She booked a nice place for the party with a lil garden area and a pool that I didn't even know existed. Anyways, she only invited 2 others from class and the rest of the attendees were made up of her and her husband's friends, who I'm not really familiar with.
Falling on a weekday evening, I went straight from work. And realising that we didn't know anyone else there, I met up the 2 other ladies before heading there. When we got there, I was expecting a huge crowd but there was only abt 12-15 other people present. As with most of these occasions, it was a lil awkward at first but we soon warmed up to each other as the night progressed. Food was nice and it was an open bar thingy so we mixed our own drinks. The weather was hot as hell so we stayed outdoors the whole evening and after a few hours of continuous drinking and questionable mixing, and being right by the pool, we talked about how nice it'd be to swim (again, drinking and swimming..not the best of ideas..) and how we, coming from work, weren't dressed for it.
After debating about it for a couple of minutes, the birthday girl stood up, shouted to her husband, and everyone else, that this was her party and she could do what she wanted, stripped and jumped into the pool. It was funny as hell After like 10 seconds, we'd figure we'd show some support and did the same. It took only about 30seconds before everyone was naked and in the pool
Right up til then, I've never seen any of these friends of mine butt naked and I guess losing your clothes is a nice way to bond..? We've been friends for awhile but we've never been that close. Anyhhow, when I was drying up and preparing to leave, she and her husband came over and asked if we could get together this weekend cos they planned a second part to the celebrations and it was an intimate one.
Only after a few minutes of beating around the bush (pardon the pun ) did I find out she had the idea of presenting me to her husband as kind of a present for the party he thrown for her, and if I was interested and ok with it. They've never tried having a third person before and she's only asking me cos I guess they're both comfortable with it.
So now I'm thinking - whoa! Like I said, we've been friends for awhile, abt a year since I started taking dancing, and we've talked abt our personal lives a little, but we were not that close. I guess we will be now One skinny dipping incident, a 50th birthday and the floodgates are open.
On hindsight, I guess I wouldn't even be thinking abt it if I wasn't a little interested
We're meeting tonight for dinner, I'm guessing, to talk about what the plan is tomorrow. IF it happens at all
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Boo-boo in the sauna
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Posted:Feb 5, 2010 2:53 am
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2010 6:36 pm
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Been away for awhile and shitload'o things has happened and figured this'd be a good time to update the blog. Met a friend for lunch the last week and while waiting, he signed me into his office building where there was a gym. Thought I'd spend my time a lil better by working out (although I have to admit, I didn't end up doing much.. )
I didn't know it prior to this but there was a sauna in the changing room, which was kinda cool considering. Now normally, I've been to public saunas and I'd normally just wrap myself in a towel but considering I didn't know there was a sauna, I had only brought a facetowel to shower with. It was about slightly past 11am and there was no one in the showers. There were only guys in teh gym when I was there so I figured, why not give it a try right..
Now given that I didn't really work out prior to this, my outfit was still relatively dry, and I really didn't want to soak it by stepping into the sauna so I figured, since there was no one around, I'd just step in nude for about 15mins and get out before 1130am to avoid any potential lunch crowd. Seemed like a good idea..so I stripped, locked everything in the locker except my watch (even left my towel in the locker..you know how icky it is to shower with a wet towel? ) and went into the sauna.
Barely 10mins in, and the door swings open and 4 other ladies come in in their bathing suits. Natural reaction, I sat up, which I now realised, made me look even guiltier. I understand that what I did wasn't entirely wrong, but I do also admit that its, i suppose, not proper etiquette (as far as public saunas go, I guess). One lady started asking who I was and do I know that its written right outside the sauna that I can't use this sauna nude and the whole schbang. One one hand, I wanted to explain myself but on the other, I didn't want to get this friend of mine in trouble so I just apologised and left.
And this office building is right smack in the middle of the central district so I guess I should be a lil more prudent here .
Its pretty funny, at least to me. Good thing I didn't start touching myself or anything like that. Heh..which reminds me, the last time I tried having sex in the sauna (and I tried it at least 4 times before. Guess I just don't learn huh..LO , I almost passed out cos of the heat.
Anyhow, will update again.
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Even more random thoughts
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Posted:Jan 14, 2010 6:24 pm
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2010 5:09 pm
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I got a funny habit of doing things at a time when I'm not supposed to..
As my previous blog entry, I'm not fully employed anymore but I got me a temp position in a relatively small firm and I go in only 3-4 times a week. It doesn't pay as much but at least I got more time to do..uh...stuff I just got called in this morning and I should be leaving now. Instead, I find myself sitting on my couch in the living room with nothing on adding an entry
Maybe I shouldn't have switched on my laptop before I went to shower. Oh well..its not often I get to do this considering I share this place with a few others so..think I'll just savour this a lil longer
Wonder what they're calling me back to work for. Anyhow, gotta go. Thanks for reading
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Random Thoughts
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Posted:Jan 13, 2010 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2010 8:44 pm
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I realise that some people, meaning myself, just cannot wear white tights to work out. There're a few ladies at the gym who wear white and can carry it off without it being obscene. I, on the other hand, simply cannot. Tops, bottoms especially, shorts, three-quarters..I think I'll just retire them all to pole dancing class where its "ok" to come across a lil obscene
Plus, I'm a lil more familiar with them anyways. And I can do without the attention at the gym. blech.
On another note, me the the office guy (who I no longer work with but for the sake of it, the name will stay) just got back from Bali. It was a holiday for me but he had to fly off to Jakarta for work after so..anyhow. We did the usual don't-do-much-cept-fuck-like-bunnies and we even took some raunchy pictures, which, we hardly ever do. I make it a point to delete them at the end of our trips cos the implication of us getting caught is well, fucking huge.
But during this trip, on our 2nd last day, he left the camera in the dining area in the hotel at breakfast while we went out and about. We didn't even realised that it was gone until the middle of the day. Thankfully though, when we got back in the evening, the guys at the hotel kept it for us. Annd being a-typical guys with little sense of privacy, they looked through the camera cos by the time we got it back, the battery was dying and everyone one of them was giving me this cheeky grin. One of'em even had the nerve to say "nice pics"
I better get a better rate the next time. It was a good trip though. Wow. Its already the new year.
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Counting down in more than one way..
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Posted:Dec 29, 2009 12:22 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2010 9:36 pm
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Its coming to the end...well, close to the end of my 2nd day of my last work week and well, i haven't been doing much. What I should be doing is finishing up what I need to finish up and cleaning up my stuff. But what I end up doing is adding another blog..
Oh well..
ANyways, CHristmas was a lil of a drab..the gf didn't make it back in time and it looks like she won't be back here til next June, at the very earliest. Problems with her visa apparently. Long story. I did spend Sunday night at a good friend's place, watching DVDs and eventually, just playing cards and talking. I had a pretty good time catching up, and we hada bit too much wine and I ended falling asleep at her place.
I got up early Monday morning and didn't have enough time to go back so I showered and borrowed her clothes to work. There wasn't much that fit and I ended up with a wraparound skirt and sweater Which was fine except that it was extremely casual looking sweater. Naturally, some friends at work gave me grief for not caring anymore (which was also true) and the closer friends gave me grief for not even bothering to wear any underwear, which i guess somehow showed. I explained and they just laughed it off.
Which got me to decide to really dress down this week. Why the fuck not right?
SOoo..i turned up for work today in shorts and a white t-shirt, and slippers Which, I must add, is pretty darn comfortable. Ha.
Til tomorrow..
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