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What. A. Week. Whew..
Posted:Jun 18, 2011 3:17 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2011 10:56 pm
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What a week. Had wanted to add a post earlier but didn't feel inspired, or didn't know where to start. Either way, here goes.

Monday started off plain wrong. Went in and was asked to fly to China for a day cos some wise ass decided to add something into the agenda between the company and our partners in CHina that needed my help with. SO, rather frantically, they managed to find me a flight, but the only available one in such short notice was at 5am Tuesday. Great. Finished up what I needed to and left early on Monday.

I didn't really pack anything at all considering I was gonna fly back out on Tuesday night, so after picking out what to wear and bring, I decided to do my laundry and clean up a little since i was home early and my housemates weren't back yet. Dumped the clothes, including the ones I was wearing into the washer and started vacuuming. I wasn't sure what I was thinking of at the time cos I had neglected to close the main door and I was vacuuming in my underwear. The next thing I knew, my neighbour was banging on the gate to try to get my attention above the noise of the vacuum, to actually ask nicely if I could close the door if I was about to do anything not fully dressed. She's always nice (her husband's not real friendly though..) and they got 2 . So I did.

Then Tuesday came and I had decided on a white shirt and dark blue skirt combo. It was a fairly thin shirt cos the flight, though not very long, was still 4 hours. Had to be comfortable. Flight was good, cab ride to the office was smooth, so far so good. Then, halfway through the morning, I realised that the strapless bra I had on was slipping down. During the discussions, I tried not to move to much but had to readjust them when I could. It was a long day, but at the end of the day, a colleague of mine who I liaise with often, told me only in her car on the way back to the airport, that almost everyone was sitting up and paying attention when I was presenting.

Wow, I thought...cool. Then she told me it was because my bra had slipped a little lower and they could see my nipple very clearly through my shirt. Arrggh..I was soo fucking embarrassed I just broke out laughing. Luckily, she was cool enough to laugh along. Ha. She even overheard one of them passing a comment that I had fairly large and pointy nipples. LOL
Shit. Great.

So I got back, skipped work on Wednesday and when I got back into the office, I got a few mails from them thanking me for going all the way there and was so willing to share. Ha. Fuckers

Thankfully, the weekend's gone pretty well so far. Went out with my girlfriends on Friday and caught Green Lantern too, with my toyboy on Saturday. Was an okay show, but halfway through he moved my hand into his pants and I ended up jerking him off for a bit Who rocks a hard on watching Green Lantern? Haha..weirdo fanboy. He was telling me about the backstory on Green Lantern which I kinda forgot like 5mins after.

Wow..this turned out to be a little longer than expected. Well, thanks for reading. Gotta hit the sack. Got some improv dance thing with another partner late afternoon. Til next time.
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Argh...my back..
Posted:May 30, 2011 12:45 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2011 5:26 pm
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Hello blogland. Hope your weekend was well. Mine got shit hitting the fan (not literally, thankfully)

Had arguments going into the weekend so I decided I'd at least try to have some fun, so I went out on Friday night. Decided, at the spur of the moment, to finally wear my white dress I bought a few months ago. Its a really short dress that I am quite embarrassed to admit, buying after watching a Pitbull video that was playing in the shop

So I dressed up, or down, depending on how you wanna put it, and hit the town on Friday with some friends of mine. One of which got mad at me later in the night cos she accused me of not telling her that everytime she bent over, her ass was showing. I'm like "huh?" First up, I'm wearing a dress just as short, if not shorter, and I try to keep my business end in, so to speak. We are all grown ups and although I can see (pardon the pun) where she was coming from, I initially thought she didn't mind, or that it was kind of deliberate, you know, for the attention. Turns out, it wasn't the case. Anyhow, it was a misunderstanding and at that time, I was having way too much fun to be paying her much attention. Small matter, I guess.

Then there was also an argument with my toyboy cos the week before, I extended a work trip to travel to Bali and spent a weekend with another companion of mine. We used to work together and have been companions for awhile, and haven't met up so I figured that was as good a time as any. Guess toyboy got a lil jealous and it boiled over during the weekend. The only good thing about these arguments is the make up sex after He came out to meet me towards the end of the night and we thrashed it out, started on some good'ol hot, angry, sweaty, hair-pulling, crotch grabbing make up sex in the carpark, then the car, then eventually back at his place. THen, we moved to a hammock he has in his balcony. Halfway through, the hammock snapped. It wouldn't been half as bad if I had landed flat on my ass cos I got well enough padding there to break the fall but I landed at an angle on my lower back, and now, I gotta start the week with a really sore back, and not in a good way. Hammocks...dangerous things..
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How do they do it
Posted:May 10, 2011 5:09 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2011 11:55 pm
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Been having quite a lot of sex with some form of clothes on of late. Not sure if its a phase, sheer convenience, something to grab, the heat of the moment or the fact that most of those times its been outside of the conventional home. In any case, its been good. Actually, better than good.

The only drawback of that is, in this heat, a couple of minutes in and our clothes would be soaked through. Makes dressing up and rushing back to the office/out of the office/out from the washroom or basically anywhere, really uncomfortable. My toyboy has a penchant for ripping clothes up too. So maybe we should tone it down a little..

The thing is, in the heat of the moment, everything's game. Scratching, hair pulling, slapping, etc, everything seems to enhance the experience. Always, only after, then you come to realize that nipples were sucked too hard, hair pulled too hard, slapped too hard, or whatever that seems hot, was just overdone The worse, barring injuries, is to find that clothes ripped to a point that you can't even put them on anymore. Baad. To a point now I keep another set of clothes in my drawer at work :S

Anyways, had sex this morning before leaving for work (he woke up with a hard on and why let it go to waste) and guess it was the workout that got my metabolism going on overdrive. Couple that with the heat and I was perspiring my ass off by the time I got to the office. And I was in a dress! Throughout the entire journey and even in the office, I look around and I realized some of my colleagues have stockings on. And I'm really puzzled as to how they pull it off. I'm perspiring my ass off, trying to dress as light or little as possible and these ladies pull off stockings! Guess some people don't perspire as much...or maybe some more than others
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Another one of my 'seems-like-a-good-idea' moments..bleh
Posted:Apr 25, 2011 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2011 5:11 am
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Why is it I always find something else to do when I'm pressing for time with a report to complete and send out by this afternoon? Instead of doing my work, I find myself adding yet another blog...for today, at least, I blame not starting the day right. I think its the looong night before that did me in.

This is my 'seems-like-a-good-idea' moment of reflection. Note to self - these ideas, generally are bad ones.

Met an old friend last evening. In my last job, she was the contact person representing my vendor in KL. That was a couple of years ago. I went up a few times for work and once, we kinda had a bit of a fling after one of those parties following a long weekend of work. Turns out she switched jobs and is now my colleague in the KL office. So she and her team were in town for a few days for work and we've been really busy so last night, being their last night in town, we went for dinner. Dinner was a good idea, we hit it off and we had fun. Bad idea - staying til they closed and not saying no to more wine.

So the restaurant closed and we took the conversation back to her hotel. At the back of my head, there was a voice screaming 'bad idea! meetings and reports due tomorrow!" but in line with the theme of 'seems-like-a-good-idea", I ignored it. So we went. There was a slight effort on my part to listen to that screaming voice in my head so I suggested we not go back up to her room and instead, hung out by the pool. Which somehow lead to hanging out til really late, and again, thought it'd be fun to jump into the pool. In truth, it WAS fun, and funny as hell

So this lead to us heading up to her room, stripping off wet clothes, drying out, making out, and waking only in the morning to rush to work for me, and her to the airport. This is where the bad idea sinks in - my clothes were still wet and even so, there was no way I was wearing the same dress to work today

I washed up, grabbed the only clothes that she didn't use over the few days and am now spotting a headache due to insufficient sleep, a little too much wine the night before, a black tank top that fits a little too snug and denim skirt that's a little too short, with shoes that thankfully, I kicked off before jumping into that pool, that doesn't match the outfit very well. And now, I'm disoriented as hell and mildly cranky.

My next plan of action - finish my damn report, grind through the day, call a cab and go home barefoot. Thank god I cancelled my meetings for today..
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Horny as fuck!
Posted:Apr 13, 2011 2:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2011 9:20 pm
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What a crazy day...was just telling a friend over the phone and he insisted I blog about it so..here goes.

A close friend of mine teaches yoga at a place quite near my office so this morning, I went to her class. It started waaaay too early for me but after awhile, I kinda got into the groove. I was one of two who wore only a bra top to practice, and the rest had a t-shirt on or something. So after the class was done, I was hanging around and talking to this other friend of mine who was commenting that she couldn't stop staring at my nipples which were sticking out against the fabric of my top cos its not padded. She was saying how it was distracting and we were laughing about it.

So I said I couldn't help it cos I tried a few other bra tops, some padded, some not, and most gave me abrasions. This was when a few other ladies overheard and started joining the conversation. So before long, I'm not sure how, it was a group discussion on who could and could not wear these tops with no padding. THen to prove a point, a few of the ladies took off their tops and started caressing/ticking each other's arms and backs to see their nipples could be seen through their tops. I thought the whole thing was hilarious!

Then the unthinkingable happened. Someone was caressing my arm, then my lower back and at the same time, I was caressing this other friend of mine and her nipples started getting really hard. It was a lil funny at first but I think it was the combination of someone caressing me and me caressing another person, I got reallly horny. LOL

After awhile, I pulled myself away, took a really cold shower (which did not help) and came to work. That whole episode this morning has left me really horny I was literally wet the whole damn day. Its been a really busy day and with me being horny I can't think straight, is making it longer. My mind just keeps wandering back to sex in everything I see, think of, talk about..its baaad

I've still got a call to take so...the plan is - I've already made a booty-call to two people in case one can't make it. So far, one has agreed to either come over after he ends later this evening, or if I'm working late, he'll swing by and we'll go back to his place. If possible, I want to go home, sit in the shower with trusty and reliable Mr Moe (my fav vibrator), relieve some of this tension, and then get some! Lets see what happens..grrr
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How honest are you?
Posted:Apr 4, 2011 11:24 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2011 7:53 am
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Just got back from lunch with this guy I'm seeing for a short while now. We're not exclusive or anything. i mean, we officially have a relationship with each other, but not limited to each other. As yet, least that's where I stand. I haven't exactly mentioned that I am also involved with a few similar relationships at the moment. Believe it or not, I like regular partners But yes, I haven't told him. I will, given time.

Anyways, we've been going out for a good few weeks and we just had sex over the weekend (hey..I can practice abstinence too. Ha!). Actually thats all we did over the weekend....so he came out and met me for lunch earlier and we started talking about our fantasies, who we fancied in those fantasies, etc. We didn't really got round to the end of that topic cos he mentioned one of his fantasies was to be in a FMF threesome. (I was actually already thinking if the married couple I'm seeing would be interested in including this young stud in our fun times in the future) So I said ok, if we do that then can I get a MFM going and he said ok too. But, the thing is, I'm not sure if he's really comfortable with it cos his body language told me otherwise. Now I've been in LOADS of these conversations to actually have a good enough guess so...anyways, no problem. I'm happy enough for now to go one-on-one with him. I bet this conversation will come up again too.

So that's one part of it. The other is, what I actually thought when we were talking about it is I actually think his sister's hot She reminds me of a pornstar. Not in her manner or the way she is (she doesn't dress like a pornstar, as far as I know..) but she actually looks like a pornstar, like her face. I don't know the name of the pornstar but they look alike. So, at the time, I had also wanted to say "oh really? Well one of my fantasies would be to fuck the hell outta your sister and have her fuck the hell outta me" but of course, I didn't say it. (Although I think his sis is HOT! LO

Which got me thinking, how honest are we when we talk about this to our partners? With partners that we've been involved with for a long enough time, I guess we can be 100% honest but still. I try to be with my regular partners, as honest as possible and I want them to be honest with me too. At the same time, I don't wanna come of as a superfreak, or a prude. You know? So how honest are you when you have these conversations?
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Another gym one
Posted:Mar 29, 2011 11:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2011 9:04 pm
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Was at the gym with a friend this morning. Not the one at work, haven't checked it out since they closed the bathrooms for renovation, or the one I'm a member at but one that my friend goes to. So this morning, he signed me in as a guest.

Anyways, it was crowded, as it always is in the mornings. I forget that this is not poledance class or my friend's yoga class where dressing less is best, but its still not too bad this morning. Just not what most of the other ladies wear I guess.. so I worked out and hit the showers. This one had the doors of the shower cubicles made of glass with an opaque sticker covering the middle portion, with the idea of providing cover from neck down to upper thighs when you shower.

Thing is, because they use a sticker and it gets wet all the time (being a shower door) it starts to peel. So most of the doors have this sticker mostly peeling off. Now I'm not sure why, but everytime someone passes someone showering, they usually look in. Today wasn't the first time I've been to this place so I'm not basing this on one experience. More often than not, those walking pass an occupied shower cubicle will look in. Its embarrassing but I find myself doing so too. Ha...quite funny. I went out to tell my friend and asked if it was the same in the gents but naturally, he was more interested in what I saw. Ha..so, does this happen in the guys locker rooms?

Oh, an another thing - I don't bring my clothes into the showers cos space is usually limited, plus I really don't want to get anything wet. I used to bring at least, my underwear in but I've dropped them sooo many times and got them wet and had to go the whole day without that I'd rather not risk it anymore. So in the lockers, I strip, wrap myself in a towel if I have time. If I don't, I usually just strip, grab my toiletries and dash to the showers, then come back out, dry myself, and then get dressed. Some people do this, some don't, which is fine. We check each other out, which, given the circumstances, is also fine. What I wonder at times is, what's the rule of thumb in the guys locker room?

Do you guys look into the shower cubicles? I'm sure "checking each other out" happens too. Right?
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The mind works in mysterious ways..well, thats my excuse anyways
Posted:Mar 23, 2011 11:56 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2011 10:14 pm
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Just got back from a long lunch with shopping bags. Yeah..guilty

It started a few days ago where this frond from work was telling me she signed up for a stiletto race organized by a radio station here. So after lunch earlier, we took a detour through a mall and I ended up buying another pair of stilettos Like a crazy 6inch, black and red "if-I step-on-you-I'll-give-you-a-puncture-wound' kind. THen, adding to that, they were playing Pitbull in the store and I suddenly remembered this video I saw last night.

There was a hot girl (like ALL his videos) in a small white, tight, short dress. SSOooo...subconsciously, I made my way into another store and picked up a little white piece of my own. Haha.. Its a bareback piece and its soo damn short it barely covers my ass. In short, its exactly like the one in the video. LOL I'm not sure why I bought it but I did. Ah well...I'm heading out this Saturday night..we'll see if wither one gets used..
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Its a small, small world
Posted:Mar 21, 2011 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2011 7:11 pm
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Shit...I'm gonna be late for a meeting but this is soo out-of-the-blue-weird I gotta get this out...some guy approached me this morning and introduced himself to me, said he saw me before. He appears to be in his early 20s..and I really cannot remember who he is.

Then, as it turns out, a couple of years ago I was in London and decided to lose my clothes and model for an art class (they paid quite well, as I remember..) and he was in that class. He came up to be talked to me and apparently, he still has a drawing of me in his folder somewhere. I was a little shocked to react at the time but...how freaky small is this world huh...its almost funny.

ANyhow..he said he'll call me and I really wanna see that drawing. How vain..
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Its tough being back...
Posted:Mar 14, 2011 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 7:38 pm
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Just got back from a 3-week holiday with majority of the time spent without clothes. Actually, the only time I had clothes on was the trip there and back, and two nights when it rained and I got cold, so I draped something over.

After spending an extended period of time going through my everyday activities (having our meals out, even having evening drinks at the bar) without clothes on, I kinda forget, or take for granted, and get used to the whole idea of not wearing anything. I do that at home all the time so that's not a problem. Well, not much of a problem..except when my housemate's boyfriends come over..anyways.

Getting back to work's hard. Clothes feel constricted..
Worse still, this morning I went to the gym and after working out, I almost walked out of the locker room nude! I towelled down, dumped everything in my bag and started walking out. It's gonna take awhile to get back into the groove..
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Does this mean we can't talk about shaving...?
Posted:Feb 24, 2011 8:44 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2011 6:09 pm
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I used the new company gym again after a looong time. They renovated it, well, if you call shifting it to a corner and reducing it to half the original size renovating..

Anyways, was in this morning and it was surprisingly, well, for me at least, crowded. Since its now smaller, some machines were removed and the rest jammed up next to one another. I'm just bitchin..its actually no big deal. I have issues though, with the shower/changing rooms. I'm not sure who decided on the layout but I really think it had to be a guy. The ladies and the gents are now facing each other. Add to that, the changing rooms are also now, smaller, with two shower stalls and one toilet, and one barely sufficient area with a bench to put our stuff. The thing is, when the door opens, this area is exposed, meaning its visable to anyone standing outside. And making it worse, there's barely enough room to change in the shower stall.

So, accident waiting to happen, I hear? Well, turns out, that was exactly what I thought the first time i saw it, and that was exactly what happened today. Midway through my own workout, I wanted to wash my hands so I made for the washroom. I was walking there with this guy I work with and he was in front of me, so right before I went into the ladies, he opened the door to the gents and lo and behold, I saw a guy who works in IT in the middle of putting on his underwear. Like dude..seriously...too much, too damn early. It was more awkward and funny than anything else. I guess we could talk about shaving the next time we pass each other...sheesh. (I didn't see him the rest of the day so..it wasn't so bad. And yes, of course I went and told some friends at work )

I brushed it off and went to finish my workout, the wholee time talking to my colleague about the silly layout. And when I was done, I went to shower, the whole time, thinking I'd be a dumbass if I let the same thing happen to me, right? Well turns out, I'm a dumbass

When I got in, since there were only two shower stalls, which were occupied, and three of us waiting. When I got in, one of the ladies waiting asked if I was gonna take long and offered to let me go first if I was quick, so I went first. Seeing as she already gave me her spot to shower first, I stepped out right after I was done to let her go, making the only available space to change the common area. I tried to be fast, dropped my towel and started dressing when midway through, on cue, the door swung open when someone came in and there was a guy who I am not sure who, standing outside, looked in, smiled, and apologized. Well he was kind enough to wait til I was out to apologise again.

Which got me thinking throughout today, that there are people in the office who must have seen each other nude, at least once Ha...kinda funny. Ah well..they're gonna change the layout again so...lets see what and how they do it this time.

Woo...this turned out to be a long one..oh well, thanks for reading. If you read it
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Why I don't buy clothes online..
Posted:Feb 17, 2011 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 7:48 pm
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Ok..a week of highs and lows in my shopping experience of late but…

I was hunting for a full body swimsuit for the longest time cos one of my new year’s resolution was to swim more. I don’t have anything decent that allowed for that. All my swim gear are bikinis and the ones I have were never designed to cover up, let alone allow for much movement.

SOOoo…I went ahead to get one. Except, being the scatterbrain that I usually am, I went to get one online. And being atypical, I went to get a few other things too. All in all, the damage was 1 fullbody swimsuit, 2 sports bra tops, 1 denim mini skirt, and 2 exercise bottoms.

Not sure what I was thinking at the time but turns out putting on the swimsuit’s like running an obstacle course. On the flipside, feels really good though. And mini skirt’s waaay shorter than expected. The fabric of the exercise gear are really thin, to a point a friend of mine told me she could see the mosquito bite on my ass this morning in the gym. I usually like to try stuff on when I buy them but oh well..
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Another random piece..cept this one has a question! :P
Posted:Feb 14, 2011 4:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2011 7:47 pm
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Okaay...another random piece

Was in Bangkok a few weeks back with this guy who I've had this odd relationship with for, I realise, a really long time. A couple of years at the ver yleast. I used to work with him which was how it started...but in any case, we were in Bangkok for a weekend. We didn't leave our rooms much (it was that kind of weekend trip) except for food and a lil walking around. I didn't even shop (gasp!!).

So one of the evenings we were out for dinner and he was giving me grief for what I wore. It was a long dress that I had just thrown on cos it was convenient. It wasn't super formal but it's presentable right. Apparently that wasn't the issue. He was giving me grief cos every time I bend over, apparently, you could see everything. And considering I wasn't wearing anything underneath, I guess you could..? Anyhow, that roused up a discussion. I knew he didn't have any underwear on, I was there when he put on his pants. So then I ask, why the double standards? Now don't get me wrong, although the outfit was deliberate, the flashing wasn't. I don't make it a point to flash everyone everywhere I go (ok, you know what, maybe sometime I do..but that's a different issue)

Which got me thinking about an age old question and issue that has been asked many times growing up and have been answered many times. I certainly can care less. I find myself bothering to dress more for the occasion and comfort than anything else.

I know enough to know that every person you ask will have their own opinion so..do you guys bother what your significant other/gf/wives wear or don't wear when you're out?
Ha..
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