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What I really really wanna... see in a first message and a profile?
Posted:Apr 10, 2017 3:13 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2022 2:41 am
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Blokes often ask what women are looking for in their messages and profile.

So, here is some - entirely well-meant - advice...

First thing to say is that messages with just "hi" or "how are you" don't make any impression at all - especially if there are no photos. Simple truth is that every woman on here gets messaged 10+++ times a day. If you can't be arsed to tell a women something interesting (or even say anything at all), why would they bother writing back? True, it's hard to get a reply, so cut and paste is ok... but personalise it a bit too.

It's important to look like you've bothered to read the person's profile.

Second, make your first message friendly. Women aren't like blokes... Telling women that you'd like to fuck them in the ass is fine so long as you are getting off on it - because that's as far as it will ever go!

Third, any photos are better than no photos. If you want to include a dick-pic (much better if it's not your main pic) don't make it a limp dick shot! Hard dicks can look good if the pic is taken well. If it's a face pic, look UP at the camera not down. A gentle smile is nice... A grim face may suit models, but on here it just makes you look like a sex offender. Take a few until you get a good one. Remember, you'll usually only get one shot when you write to women on here.

Fourth, read your message before you hit send! Auto-correct can make an arse of you. I couldn't care less whether you can spell so long as I can understand what you're saying.

Finally, fill in the fekkin profile page completely! If you can't even be arsed to tick a few drop-boxes, what's the likelihood that you wash regularly?

If women click on your profile, make sure there's something to read... Inviting them to "if you want to know anything, just ask" is fine - but they won't bother unless you look like Brad Pitt. If you can't be bothered they won't either.

Happy hunting everybody!
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