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Communication decline
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Posted:Jan 11, 2018 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2020 4:38 pm
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I have been a part of this site for a while now and I feel that communication is becoming a lost art form.
From the people I have talked to in my area (mostly females and couples) When many approach another on this site the approach they use would not even be considered in the general public. Look I know this is a sex site, but have people on here made it so that any advances towards another can be first met with hostility until it is proven you are not a douche?
With this being the consensus (in my area) how would go to approach another on this site without being ed a fake, a bot, or a poser? Instant messenger is not any better, and the majority of emails sent to other members never elicit a response.
Apparently being real, knowing how to hold a real conversation, and talking to some like you are standing face to face with them are not recognized either.
I guess I am going to stick to the blogs on here, as this is where many of the real people still are!
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Private message
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Posted:Jan 7, 2012 3:46 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2020 4:38 pm
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If you want to send me a message for my eyes only--do it here. If you are just passing through feel free to say Hi.
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Things that make you go----HMMM
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Posted:Nov 30, 2011 3:25 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2020 4:38 pm
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I have been on Older Hookups for some time now, and have met some very nice people, some very pushy people, and even some computer generated people. Sometimes it is hard to tell which one you are ending up with. I know there is no tone of voice through typing, but I think I have figured out a way to weed through the pushy people, and the computer generated ones. Here is my philosophy, take it for what it is.
Computer generated---ask you for a pic, no profile information (or the very least amount) and if you ask them an in depth question never a response.
Pushy People--Not too much different then computer generated, will answer questions, but they still demand a picture because they say "do you know how many people are emailing me and trying to contact me"? My response to them is no---and if you are looking for someone with substance then slow down. But they want what they want, and alot of them I think just like all the attention that is given on here.
Its funny---I know the men outnumber the women on here about 75 or more to 1. But I have come to be more a people watcher on here, and if someone contacts me, I treat them how I would like to be treated. Its funny because I think so many people are used to the way people communicate on here that when someone treats them like they bumped into in public--it actually makes them take a step back, and they get caught off-guard.
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