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Is there anybody out there?
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Is there anybody out there? Starting to become frustrated with this site. They few times that I've attempted to IM someone (one of the few ways us free members can actually reach out) it turns out they are either bots or not willing to chat back. What ever happened to common courtesy? A simple, hey, thanks for reaching out, but sorry, not interested goes a long way. That whole do unto others rule, I know so many preach it, but very few walk the walk. Now, don't get me wrong, I've had one or two good conversations with actual real people here, but it just so happens to be that they are 1000+ miles away... maybe it's just the Tampa area? Not that I'm trying to turn this into a soapbox bitching post, but one last thing I'd like to point out. Do people just not read profiles anymore? Or do they just not care? Because I've been asked a few times if I'd be willing to join a couple where the guy is Bi. Sorry, I'm straight. No offense, you do you, but, I'm obviously going to be a bit hesitant to put myself in that situation. Also.... free member. Can't respond to your messages unless you top fan me. Or comment on my blog. Either way! If you really want to get a hold of me, those are the only available ways at this time. Now that that's out of the way, I'd like to say that the people I have met here thus far are freakin' awesome. I hope one day we can share a beer together. I am looking for a companion that is more than JUST a fuck buddy. I mean, yes, I want that too, but, friendship would always be appreciated. And if it's not today, well, there's always tomorrow. 😉💯🔥😈    |
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Someday I'll figure out how to add photos to the comments.....
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Have you considered how your approach might look if it were multiplied by 100 times? 100 “typical guys” looking for “fun” Or to “try new things” (AKA find a partner who will make it her job to plan for your pleasure) 100 messages in an inbox that simply read, “hi hows your day?” 100 guys hoping that a woman will use her time and initiative to “chat and see where things go.” Maybe this isn’t your approach, I don’t know. But whatever your approach is, imagine multiplying it by 100x / day. Does the idea exhaust you? It should. Many women give up because it’s too big a job. Many of the remaining accounts are from people who’ve made it their job to stick it out. These are your ‘fakes’ People do get lucky here, but it’s not because of luck: you get what you put into it.
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Nope. most people don't read profiles, or as standard members.. can't. The site says people are on line for ages after they have logged out, so the people you are trying to engage might not even be on line. When I log on to IM, i usually get inundated with lots of people trying to chat, i can manage 3, after that I struggle  so I'm afraid sometimes I have to ignore them.
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I read what I am allowed to read. Which, suffice it to say, isn't much. I understand that some are probably inundated with messages, but, what does it say for society in general that it's ok to ignore someone? I truly believe that the internet's inherent anonymity allows us to treat others as if they weren't real people behind the keyboard. And, tbh, I think that that's a shitty way to treat people. Just my 2c.
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Nope. most people don't read profiles, or as standard members.. can't. The site says people are on line for ages after they have logged out, so the people you are trying to engage might not even be on line. When I log on to IM, i usually get inundated with lots of people trying to chat, i can manage 3, after that I struggle so I'm afraid sometimes I have to ignore them.
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I hope someday I can convince you to come south ... we could have so much fun...
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