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Many Of The Emails I Receive Make Me Feel Like I've Been Reduced To A Good Piece of Meat!  

Patti_Kake 46F
605 posts
9/18/2016 9:51 am
Many Of The Emails I Receive Make Me Feel Like I've Been Reduced To A Good Piece of Meat!

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There's a franchise steakhouse near where I live, that I've been to several times, as well as to some of their other locations.



One of their menu 'options' is that you are able to choose the cut of steak that you would like directly from their glass-front meat case, instead of just ordering what's on the menu, and getting their choice.



Either way, I can say without exception that I've never had a steak that wasn't excellent, especially when I did choose to select my own from what was visible in their meat case.

This concept of selecting a 'piece of meat' by what one sees came to mind this morning when I was reading through the emails that I had received.

Many of the guys who have written to me appear to be choosing to do so based solely on what they are seeing when they view my profile pictures.

I can understand that ..... I can even appreciate the fact that they find me attractive enough to want to send me an email and state that they think so ..... but, that's not all that many of them do or say.

I won't bore you with a lot of examples, but where on my profile does it say that I'm "hot", "look good enough to eat for hours", or will "follow (their) every command to sexually exhaust myself and then beg for more"?

That last one was from a guy that had no profile pictures and didn't attach any either!

Sorry guys, but if all you want is a 'great piece of meat', either go to Texas Roadhouse or an equivalent steak house!




And, as far as what I may or may not be 'attracted' to, please attach a picture of your face because the bare chests and penis pictures on your profiles are a dime-a-dozen on this site!

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Come and visit me on my Blog, "Patti's (Blog) Page"Patti_Kake


Patti_Kake 46F
681 posts
9/18/2016 9:55 am

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Why is this necessary to get this post seen?????

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Come and visit me on my Blog, "Patti's (Blog) Page"Patti_Kake


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
9/18/2016 10:05 am

Patti, You said it well and clear. It happens to all of us. It makes no sense why someone will approached someone like that. No sense at all. or should I say no common sense at all. I just ignored those emails. cause that action alone is telling me with what type of person I am dealing with. so no. I don't want to know anything else about them.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 10:17 am:
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Thank you, nicelipss ..... neither do I!

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BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
9/18/2016 10:15 am

Welcome to Older Hookups!

Yeah, this happens to pretty much every woman on this site. At the end of the day, this site is about fantasy; what we want, who we might meet, how are sexual dreams might be fulfilled. We all project our desires onto people who we find attractive.

How it plays out here in the male/female dynamic is that (many, most,) men who send messages are coming from a place where, "mi fantasy es su fantasy". They assume that what makes them hard will make you wet because they don't know you and all they have to go with is their fantasy of how much you will enjoy whatever they want to do.

despite what some people say, these men writing to you aren't knuckle dragging mouth breathers, they are the guy in the office next to you, your neighbor and that kid who works at Trader Joe's. it's just a side to the that hey normally keep well under wraps.

You can't control what men choose to write, but you can control how you handle it.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 10:41 am:
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I'm beginning to realize this, BrownEyedBBW.

The most prevalent examples of this come from the guys who live several hours driving time away from me with their "I don't mind driving to be with you" comments.

With all of their 'fantasizing', it's obvious that they never once considered that my words are not directed to just what they want!

I mean seriously, with all of the responsibilities that each of us carries with every day life, can't one of these guys realize that I may have wants and desires too, and driving 3 or 4 hours to satisfy them ..... when and if time and the circumstances of our every day lives allows it ..... only creates frustrations and stress that are not conducive to any sort of 'normal' relationship?

I can only hope that somewhere out there, there is a guy who can be a 'partner' instead of a 'predator', or having it all 'his way'.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/18/2016 10:29 am

Welcome to the site.. Your best to start blocking these idiots.. Good luck in finding someone! It does take time and patients on here and weeding through these jerks too hugsssssssss V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 10:49 am:
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I've yet to 'block' anyone, thank God, but it does appear as if so far, all I'm getting messages from are the 'ME-ME-ME-and-only-ME' guys!

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northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
9/18/2016 10:47 am

Welcome to the "meat market."

Those offers to do things which were never listed as requirements? You may have received some cut and paste messages which contained items the sender believed had "universal" appeal.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 10:53 am:
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If that's "universal appeal", please tell me what "universe" they perceive women to be from?

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coreyoral4u2015 45M
59 posts
9/18/2016 10:50 am

I have nothing but respect for you and any attraction begins with your intelligence which apparent from your well written posts and messages.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 4:06 pm:
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Thank you, corey!

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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
9/18/2016 11:27 am

I TRIED TO TELL YOU!

Using more than all the road!


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 11:33 am:
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That you did, 2ndegree, that you did!

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/18/2016 11:51 am

I love the Texas Roadhouse they have the best PRIME RIB on the planet..And as far as the emails oh I so get it..welcome to our world..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 2:38 pm:
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Thanks, Tmptrzz!

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notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
9/18/2016 12:17 pm

take this site with a grain of salt, some people are ok, and others will cut you down


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 2:41 pm:
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No one has tried to "cut me down" per se, at least not yet.

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affdude10 53M

9/18/2016 10:17 pm

I actually get unwanted and at times harassing emails from men on here. I just block and move on. If I respond to them, it just motivates them even more.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/19/2016 5:10 am:
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I try to respond to all of the emails I receive, even if it's just a simple "No Thanks", but some of them are just so crude and repulsive that I'll just delete them without a reply.

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Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
9/19/2016 12:51 pm

women are in such minority on this site that some of the men get over stimulated and let erections control their minds and mouths.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/20/2016 5:17 am:
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I tend to think that it's the bullshit marketing hype on the sign-up page that some of these guys actually believe is true.

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ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
12/11/2016 3:38 pm

If women feel like a peice of meat, they should consider what and how they put themselves on display - including, what they don't put on display.


Patti_Kake replies on 12/12/2016 7:38 am:
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" what they don't display" That makes absolutely no sense.

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ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
12/12/2016 8:56 pm

Cynicisms, criticisms and sarcasm - three words three definitions but let's not worry about the grey. Presumptions of mathimatical calculations are black and white.

Timing took priority or I would have elaborated earlier. The delay worked out though... Rather than go into unwelcomed details, I'll presume what's on display is intended to pull results from the particular interest it targets.


Patti_Kake replies on 12/13/2016 6:55 am:
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Unless presented as an inquiry.

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CRS0ne2 56M

7/17/2018 7:39 pm

well now I'm just hungry for a good steak.


Patti_Kake replies on 8/2/2018 8:13 am:
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Bon Appetit!

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