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Sunday Peeves
Sunday Peeves We've all been there.... and about running errands on a day off, in our own time, dressed the way we like to dress when we are not work, and we happen across a coworker. Coworker - Slumming it today? - What? (Looking around to see who is talking to .) Coworker - Are we slumming it today? (Giving the over the glasses , up and down.) - No.... This is the way I dress when not work. (Puzzled, looking down my t-shirt, zip up hoodie, jeans, tennis shoes.) What's wrong with what wearing? Coworker - Uh-huh, slumming it. (Looking my ) Does she? - Yes, I do. Thank you, you fucking troll. I wish I was riding in an amigo, I would have rolled right over you. Why do people insist on stereotyping a person based on the image of the person they see work each day. Am I not allowed to have a life outside of work? Is it impossible to fathom the thought that I might just throw my hair up in a bun, go sans makeup in jeans and a t-shirt to do grocery shopping? Why is it that when I do it, slumming it? I've seen this fucking troll wearing sweatpants and flip flops.... what do you that? Thank you for creating a little more insecurity in my already insecure mind. |
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I think the part that bothered me was the comment that I was "slumming it". What exactly is that supposed to mean? As someone who was partially raised by neglectful, white trash parents, my mind immediately went to that. I've worked really hard to break that cycle and, truth be told, very few people know about my childhood or what it was like. So her comment , "You look like you're slumming" bothered you...so what.. Every person you meet in your life time, will judge you. Whether they keep their judgement to their self, or tell you, is up to that person.... If you did grow up with white trash parents, and worked to get away from that, then anyone would think you'd be more mindful of your casual appearance. So you really can't get pissed off with her.
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Actually, she is not. She's missing a bunch of teeth and her glasses are always filthy. Then say, "it doesn't take much here to attract the hunks"
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I say fuck the haters! Wear what you want & do what you want! And don't let their attitude and comments get ya down.
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Why do people insist on stereotyping a person based on the image of the person .... This is an automatic impulse. A persons mind gets accustomed to seeing you one way, all of the time, then when you show up looking dressed-down... that "triggers" [there's that buzz word of today] ... them to take notice.. [People , well most, are aware of their environment, and when something or someone is out of place or different, they react]. However commenting about their observation? Not really necessary. But people will judge. All the time. Even if they say they don't. In the Jerry Seinfeld Show.. something like this was talked about...George was asking Jerry what's wrong with wearing sweatpants in public... Jerry says, it's showing everyone you've given up [trying to attract a woman]. So again.... people do judge..always will , even if they say they don't.
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Why do people insist on stereotyping a person based on the image of the person .... This is an automatic impulse. A persons mind gets accustomed to seeing you one way, all of the time, then when you show up looking dressed-down... that "triggers" [there's that buzz word of today] ... them to take notice.. [People , well most, are aware of their environment, and when something or someone is out of place or different, they react]. However commenting about their observation? Not really necessary. But people will judge. All the time. Even if they say they don't. In the Jerry Seinfeld Show.. something like this was talked about...George was asking Jerry what's wrong with wearing sweatpants in public... Jerry says, it's showing everyone you've given up [trying to attract a woman]. So again.... people do judge..always will , even if they say they don't.
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I’ve become more of a “don’t care what you think” kind of person lately. But, I will confess that I have changed the time of day I go grocery shopping just to avoid running into people I know.
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I take it she's a high maintenance type - maybe that's the proper response. . . "I'm not a high maintenance wench!"
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Ahh... Don't worry about THAT stuff. If he's not a friend, he's not worthy of the effort to reply. It's all good. Now... whadja SMELL like? 🤔 🔥 💦 I cheat all the time. I may look funny (sometimes) ... but I damn well smell like a million bucks. I don't mind, how you smell... btw. 😘
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing this one with me my "free" time is what I do for me it is not for those I choose not to allow to participate when that's happened to me, I reach for my phone and speak into it, say goodbye to the univited intruder and continue about my business I also have a "B+" note in my office, it reminds me to "be positive" and, then, I can make it thru the day you never know the hell people are going thru, so, I just try to stay optimisti while at work, and I rarely take "work" home with me, or to socialize with me have a great week reminded me of this Alanis Morissette - "Uninvited" Like anyone would be I am flattered by your fascination with me Like any hot blooded woman I have simply wanted an object to crave But you, you're not allowed You're uninvited An unfortunate slight Must be strangely exciting To watch the stoic squirm Must be somewhat heartening To watch Shepard meet Shepard But you, you're not allowed You're uninvited An unfortunate slight
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I’ve become more of a “don’t care what you think” kind of person lately. But, I will confess that I have changed the time of day I go grocery shopping just to avoid running into people I know.
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I take it she's a high maintenance type - maybe that's the proper response. . . "I'm not a high maintenance wench!"
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Hi secret_lade thanks for sharing this one with me my "free" time is what I do for me it is not for those I choose not to allow to participate when that's happened to me, I reach for my phone and speak into it, say goodbye to the univited intruder and continue about my business I also have a "B+" note in my office, it reminds me to "be positive" and, then, I can make it thru the day you never know the hell people are going thru, so, I just try to stay optimisti while at work, and I rarely take "work" home with me, or to socialize with me have a great week reminded me of this Alanis Morissette - "Uninvited" Like anyone would be I am flattered by your fascination with me Like any hot blooded woman I have simply wanted an object to crave But you, you're not allowed You're uninvited An unfortunate slight Must be strangely exciting To watch the stoic squirm Must be somewhat heartening To watch Shepard meet Shepard But you, you're not allowed You're uninvited An unfortunate slight To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Ahh... Don't worry about THAT stuff. If he's not a friend, he's not worthy of the effort to reply. It's all good. Now... whadja SMELL like? 🤔 🔥 💦 I cheat all the time. I may look funny (sometimes) ... but I damn well smell like a million bucks. I don't mind, how you smell... btw. 😘 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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People I know shit bricks when they see me outside of work because I usually wear soccer shorts, not those fucking things that hang down past the knees.
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11/17/2019 3:48 pm |
People I know shit bricks when they see me outside of work because I usually wear soccer shorts, not those fucking things that hang down past the knees.
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