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waste of money so far.....
waste of money so far..... Wow Older Hookups has been a waste of money so far for me! if you read this and see where I am going wrong please let me know...... so far been on here a month and just vary disappointed cam models and just bs all I have seen sad and seems like a scam to me? |
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damn i totally agree with you ,been on an off here 4 yrs and the same b/s
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I blame the members, a bunch of time wasters. 1 out of every 100 are genuinely looking and happy to meet, the rest are just looking thinking they are going to meet some marvelous person that they have built in their own mind but that person doesn't exist in the real world and if they do they are not going to meet them on this site.
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I blame the members, a bunch of time wasters. 1 out of every 100 are genuinely looking and happy to meet, the rest are just looking thinking they are going to meet some marvelous person that they have built in their own mind but that person doesn't exist in the real world and if they do they are not going to meet them on this site.
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There are a lot of women time wasting you on here, but a lot depends on your immediate area. I suggest you make use of more sites than just this one site.
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I had a peek at your profile. One thing I might suggest is to use a spell checker, it just gives a better impression if things are spelled correctly. Men do outnumber women on this site, so you really have to work to get noticed. If you send messages, make sure you are nice and polite, don't send a one liner asking to hook up. Read her profile first. If she says no, walk away and don't get mean. Another good way of getting to know people here are through the blogs. Read some blogs, leave some comments and let the other bloggers get to know you. Good luck.
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Oh well, another DIS-satisfied customer. It really seems funny that there is so much gripe about standard members, then paying members gripe about how worthless this site is. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I had a peek at your profile. One thing I might suggest is to use a spell checker, it just gives a better impression if things are spelled correctly. Men do outnumber women on this site, so you really have to work to get noticed. If you send messages, make sure you are nice and polite, don't send a one liner asking to hook up. Read her profile first. If she says no, walk away and don't get mean. Another good way of getting to know people here are through the blogs. Read some blogs, leave some comments and let the other bloggers get to know you. Good luck. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I tend to disagree based on my own experience on here. I have been lucky to meet several very nice men in the time I have been here. They each turned into long term fwbs. I think you do have to take the time to get to know each other before jumping into bed, although I have done that once or twice myself...lol But some good conversation before and at a first meet goes a long way. I can pretty much tell if I even want a first meet after talking some first, either by text, cam, or phone....I always talk on phone before meeting. The voice and how we connect determines if we meet or not. Good luck.... patience is the key.
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It is just growing pains. Things will get better. There are more guys looking than there are woman. A lot of the woman are looking for something that fits within their lifestyle or schedule. Some are just looking for a little something extra to something they already have going. Just remember that it isn't always something you did wrong or even right for that matter. It's hard to break the ice on any dating site. Especially one like this that has an emphasis on sex. It is only logical that people will naturally be more interested in the most attractive option available to them in this setting. Be patient and take your time getting to know people. I have met some fun and amazing woman on here. It isn't a scam. They weren't quite what I was looking for long term, but I made that clear going in and we had a great time. Just be yourself and casually check out the blogs in your area and message the people that interest you. Rejection sucks but it is part of the process. Don't be offended if a woman doesn't respond. Her lack of response is out of experience because some guys look at any response as an opportunity even if it was a no. I'm on vanilla sites too it is no different there. Just be yourself and you will find it. My last date was from someone that recognized me in public from my blog on here last week. Just be patient.
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Thanks for the insight and tips from all the real people who responded. I appreciate it.
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Sorry to say but I get more communication and interest at Walmart then this site... so I am out of here good luck to the people who stay and keep paying for this site my condolences to you. 45 days and not one real person = fail
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