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Blogs > oksylvia1992 > Curious Sylvia

Dinner and a Movie  

oksylvia1992 32F
217 posts
3/16/2016 3:33 pm
Dinner and a Movie

I found Older Hookups and stumbled into the lifestyle just a couple of months ago. Before then I hadn’t been on a date or had sex in almost a year, but things have been going good since then. I’ve met some great people, been to a couple of lifestyle parties, been in a couple of threesomes, and been one-on-one with a woman.

Today a man I work with at my new job asked me out. I haven’t been with just a man in a long time. He’s good looking and seems very nice, but I haven’t had a date that’s just dinner and movie in over a year. I’m not sure I know how I should act on a dinner and movie date.

With my recent dating I always know there’s going to sex. I never had sex on a first date until I found the lifestyle. Now I’m debating whether sex on the first date in the vanilla world is considered bad taste. If I had met him on Older Hookups or at a lifestyle party I’d pretty much know what to expect, but now I don’t know.

Stay tuned fans. I’ll let you know next week how it goes. Our date is this Saturday.
I'm not as naive as I used to be.


mjovani76 47M
125 posts
3/16/2016 3:41 pm

 just go with the flow


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
3/16/2016 7:34 pm

 Rock his world!


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
3/17/2016 8:06 am

 I can understand why you would be nervous. I'm sure everything will work out. I hope you have a great time.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
3/19/2016 7:49 am

 Nothing wrong with waiting ....or creating a chase type atmosphere....to create a more intense sexual desire.....so that when the SEX does happen.....makes it that much better.

Thanks for sharing


theraventechno 41M

3/25/2016 7:26 pm

 Good luck on the date. Sext on a first date depends on the atmosphere between the two of you. Call me old fashioned, but unless it is instant between me and my date sex onot the first date 7th not on my mind. Though, I do hope you went with Vixen'so advice.


Texcumslinger 40M  
5 posts
6/10/2016 6:59 pm

 It's drive in weather now! Perfect time for fun st the movies!


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