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Something Went Wrong
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Something Went Wrong My brother told me once that a woman has it easy. Any woman can pick up a man any time and have sex. My brother is wrong. I agreed to meet a couple for dinner and see where it would go from there. The woman is a friend of my sister-in-law and she arranged for the meeting. Dinner was going good and the woman and I were hitting it off. The man seemed very nervous and hardly spoke at all. We were sitting in a booth with me on one side and they were across the table from me. When he got up to go the bathroom she came over and sat with me on my side of the table. She put her hand on my thigh and said, “I really like you.” I told her I liked her too and asked if we could some place. She said she wanted to, but needed her guy to agree. She thought he’d jump at the chance. When he got back from the bathroom she suggested to him that we all go to their apartment. He mumbled something and said, “Not this time.” He got up told her to come on and they left. At least he paid the bill before he left. He was very rude and didn’t say goodnight or anything to me. I don’t know what went wrong. I thought we were enjoying each other’s company. So my brother is wrong. A woman, or at least me, can’t pick any man any time. I'm not as naive as I used to be.  |
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Threesomes and moresomes are always complicated. With two people, there's only one relationship; with a threesome, there's three. Your experience probably says more about the relationship between the couple rather than with you.  
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Sadly it sound s like a case of a guy not ready for the reality of playing around.
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Don't get down on yourself, there's probably a dynamic going on between the guy and his wife that is totally hidden from you and you just happened to catch the bs side of it. I wouldn't stress it too much honestly.
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1/24/2016 2:38 pm |
Sylvia, Don't let this change anything. This was one guy. There may have been some outside factor that had nothing to do with you that caused this reaction. There have been a few women that Mrs. Coyote has really liked, that I just really didn't connect with and didn't want to be with intimately. It was probably better that this came out at dinner, rather than much later in the evening. Threesomes should be fun for everyone involved, and should never have someone that is just taking one for the team. It does not at all indicate your attractiveness, just that you didn't have the right chemistry for that match. Mr. Coyote
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I agree with the previous comments. You weren't picking up a guy. Or a girl. Or even a married guy cheating for the first time who may have a conscience about it. Picking up a couple is a completely different dynamic. The biggest thing about the situation from what you said in your post is that the couple were not of like minds. It seems he was much more monogamist than he let on to his girl. There are many dynamics of the situation between the two of them that you will never know, but that has no reflection on you, who you are, or anything you did. Look at it this way. You had the girl picked up.
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Your brother is wrong about any man at any time. That said, a woman can have sex more often than a man. It's a matter of standards. So long as the woman isn't too choosy, she can have sex almost any time she wants. You strike me as a woman with standards and that's good. As for the specific situation, I won't worry...as others have pointed out, there is more happening than meets the eye. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Two things stand out here Ms Sylvia, one is that he was pissed off at you getting along with her and not him, and two is, your profile is clearly stating you are not looking for men and only secondarily state you will accept M/F couples.....and yes in 99.9999% of the times, I a woman can pick up a man, where as a man is lucky if gets it 50% of the time....but keep trying though....
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1/25/2016 1:02 pm |
I would say that would be a rare action
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Sylvia.... Nothing is ever easy if it wasn't we would all be walking around with smiles and not a care in the world. That being said in regards to this meet not ending the way you hoped it would...I like you am a bit puzzled to this guys re-action. I am wondering if they were a DOM/SUB couple if you do know I please share. Thanks.....SIG
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He is right you could pick me up any time.I think the other guy was just to nervous to take you home with them.
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As I read this post, I was wondering if he'd gotten sick???? Was this their first time exploring with another person? Maybe he had the jitters because he thought it was up to him to satisfy both women???? Just as you were upset during your first FMF, he may have had the same problem?
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