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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/25/2020 12:45 am

Cheeses McBiggles......intelligent, articulate, bonnie.........all round fucking stunning...........ye're gorgeous.........

Dinner be sae insecure......mony a man and wummin wid jump ye in a flash ower here


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/25/2020 6:33 am

BiggLala replies on 7/24/2020 1:09 pm:.....
-In what way does that wide-open pussy shot influence your opinion of her?

*******

I don't "judge" her per se (we're all adults entitled our own beliefs and standards) It just makes me feel like she is not the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting.

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QuitetheSOP 57M
122 posts
7/25/2020 12:07 pm

What's a quality woman...

One who doesn't make you wear a paper bag over your head in bed;

One who appreciates the sexual ecstasy that a sturdy one and a half inch penis can provide;

One who at the end of sex says "Wow that was the best five seconds I've ever had."

Above doesn't apply to me of course, oh no it definitely doesn't... erm I was just saying on behalf of "a friend."

Regards SOP


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/26/2020 6:55 am

BiggLala replies on 7/25/2020 10:09 pm:
Is this one of our challenges with miscommunication and/or word usage? I'm thoroughly confused now. You know I don't need help with that dammit!!!

Okay...I'm just clarifying because you first said a woman with a wide open pussy shot will not, "...drive me away in and of itself." However, you now say she's not "...the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting." Again, I'm just asking because that does sound like the open pussy shot drives you away in and of itself. 🤔
(And to be clear, "judge" was your word, not mine.)

*******

Communicating with you can surely be an exhausting effort. Are you this way in bed too?

I think the challenge is that you see things in a binary, right/wrong, black/white way, whereas I am the master of gray, shading all decisions. (Legacy of being a married cheater perhaps.)

A pussy shot will not .drive me away in and of itself - I don't consider her a bad person for posting it.

Not the kind of woman I'm interested in meeting - Perhaps I should have included the word "possibly" in here.

LOTS of factors in the decision to meet (or even to contact). Posting a wide open pussy shot seems a bit crude, or even desperate, so it is a minus, but not an end all killer. Does she seem fun? Smart? Adventurous? Well then I'm not going to reject her just because she posted her pussy on a sex site.

WHEW - does this (sort of) make sense now?

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FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/26/2020 8:11 am

I don't think you'll get a straight answer because it is just so subjective. And because each man probably doesn't have a definitive answer. And because after all the information has been gleaned from her profile, her photos, her blog pages... you still never know until you meet her.

Also, for me, a quality profile will have a lot to say, hopefully in both words and pictures (a man likes to look... don't tell me women don't too!). But while I have never rejected a profile just because there weren't any naked photos, I have rejected many that had naked photos but no text in their profiles (now I though that it was against the rules, but there's plenty of profiles like that - not even "I wanna fuck" ).

Instead of asking what men might want, I think you should be asking the reverse questions - what sort of men do you want to attract and what sort of men attract you? You might get more attention if you post a close up, lips-a-gaping pussy shot... but do you want men who aren't interested in you until you show your undercarriage? You are not just on a sex site, you are deeply involved in the conversation on that sex site... I don't think that you need to strip to demonstrate that you're interested in sex! Equally though, if you do want to strip, if you think it would say something extra about you... then do it! It can be quite liberating


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/26/2020 1:25 pm

>>But why is it that we do that when we find out our celebrity crush is married or something. Like, yeah...not like I had a shot in hell. Or is it just ME who does that? Okay...

Haha no, I am TOTALLY the same. "What - he's married? Dang!" As if.


Ubsurprised81 41M  
40 posts
7/27/2020 2:34 pm

For me it doesn’t matter if you have clothes on or off to catch my attention because I have met some amazing women that pic showed them being lazy and comfortable. Their face or shape caught my eye and there train of thought is what got me and I will say one was hiding a killer body and understood why she didn’t show it off and attract all the creeps


MaxCumz 45M  
4 posts
7/27/2020 6:33 pm

Ahh men and women are all the same. Quality is implied by the packaging. To bring it to it’s most base level, you’ll all pay for a turd in a box.. if the box looks pretty enough. Its not till later that you realise it’s actually just a turd.
Personally from your inspiration to start this post, I think you must have misread quality for quantity.


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
7/30/2020 2:38 pm

"Of course, that leads me to again wonder why the hell I'm still on here. "

Anyone with any self-awareness does


Giveitago1269 39M

7/30/2020 5:25 pm

Great read. Good luck!


Paradox12121 54M
133 posts
7/31/2020 3:49 pm

A 'quality' woman is someone who intrigues me intellectually first, then stimulates me physically.
I have no idea where things go after that and there are no guarantees anything will work out.
It's just a thought.

Nothing much to say.


srkaficionada 70F

7/31/2020 8:40 pm

I’m just here to answer the celebrity crush question. I’m all about the Indians, male and female alike.
1. Shahrukh Khan. [image]
2. Hrithik Roshan. He’s just pretty.
3. Sid Malhotra.
4. Kajol
5. Ms Zinta.


MaxCumz 45M  
4 posts
8/1/2020 5:41 pm

Must be my depraved sense of humour


Pleasure_You01 57M

8/1/2020 7:39 pm

A good post.

In my opinion, you have to be normal but also a little more provocative as a man here. What's wrong with that? I think we all search for quality in real life but it has become so random. Personally, I like photos of women/couples with clothes off or on but write something decent and understandable in your profile as well.

Just remember, it's more difficult for a man on here so maybe we have to be a little more perverted, not a nice word I know, to generate female interest.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/4/2020 2:53 pm

When I read this I was totally confused. Were you drin keen g when you scribbled this?
Was that the intent?
Going back five months was a real stretch.
No worries. I guess ya have a lotta free time. Kool!
Just accept the fact that you're not my type and move on. No need to invent stuff and feel bad and invent things.
Sexist? 🤔
Nope.

Sheesh...


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/4/2020 2:58 pm

o and puhleez...
let's keep those lines of communication open.
Let's not start closing doors. After all, you're so open minded and all.
Highlight myshortcomings for your phans.
It'll be so much fun, no? 🤔


mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
8/5/2020 6:54 pm

    Quoting  :

They don't own a mirror my friend... they can't see the asses they make of themselves I guess

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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/6/2020 12:03 am

I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

Hope you're well m'dear.


carl_denham 60M

8/6/2020 5:57 am

While I think quality is inherently subjective, I think that for a man he will see something in a woman that reflects what he values. Some men value class, some value sexual availability. Some may want a sense of humor.

If I think about it more objectively, quality would lend itself to higher sensibilities. It would indicate being educated, articulate, an ability to navigate social situations (even difficult ones), and self-sufficiency (both emotionally and economically).

It also may help to introduce a scaling system. Where I grew up, there were three kinds of women a man was interested in. Those you fuck, those you date, those you bring home to mom (or eventually marry). I've fucked those I would never date, dated those that I would never marry. To marry, I need to have loved fucking and dating them. But generally, quality for me would fall into the third category...


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/6/2020 11:43 am

Phluck me gently, I've just read that comment. I don't know why I'm surprised, because he's one of the most arrogant people I've ever come across here. But I am. It kinda confirms everything I ever thought about him, he's just one of those guys who thinks he's all that, always out to prove a point. Clearly very insecure and looking to drag people down to make himself feel better. But sucking the life out of things as he goes.......I'm going to drop that comment into his post, for his adoring public to see.

I have to confess that this place is feeling a bit jaded for me at the moment. Too much drama, Paul no doubt delighted that he's managed to put himself in the centre of it. For the first time ever I'm struggling to enjoy the lunacy of it all. Just cannae be arsed.

Hey, there are worse things in life than being fed up with the ville of blogs.

When can we get back to skelping arses, that's what I want to know!?!?


mamacita38dd 45F
62894 posts
8/6/2020 1:59 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

    And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

    Hope you're well m'dear.
You know my friend, I have a always said you were a smart man and we have sparred in the past, but I have to give it to you, as you are speaking the truth here, blogland got rid of one Narcissist a few years ago and now we have another and a troll minion to complete her... lol!

Sometimes you just have to speak the truth let the Asses show everyone you were completely right about them

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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/6/2020 3:26 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I read that idiot's comments yesterday, what a prick. He's been taking lessons in narcissism from someone, that's the only explanation I can find for him being able to misconstrue that this post was all about him. Either that or this is yet another example of him 'never drinking' while posting.

    And yet people still seem to pander to him, like flies round shite.........

    Hope you're well m'dear.
McF**k... I knew it wasn't about me. Get blah blah to explain!
Get with the program ffs...

Oh you people are so funny .

Hey Blah blah... How did you read my reply to your troll?
Back door fun? No worries.

Keep blasting me and have a good time. No balls to even quote me. Seriously... What better way to boost your numbers? lol...

I know who I'm dealing with. Anathema headquarters for the lame and lonely?

Have a pleasant evening. Keep bashing me. No worries...


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/7/2020 3:07 am

Och, you'd never ruin my blogging fun. You're one of the main reasons I remain.

You're right, I need to snap out of these doldrums, stop letting the diddies suck the life out of things, and get back to blogging about the issues of the day. As in, the effluent of the day.......yes......jobbies.

Igualmente mi guapa, igualment! x

They should really invent an emoji for skelping, eh?


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/10/2020 2:48 am

ps - he has respect issues, he truly believes everyone else is beneath him.

pps - I've never done the ps's first, so in this case ps = pre-script.

So, a skelp is a spank, a smack, usually in reference to the arse, eg, he/she/it's got a face like a well skelped arse. But it can also be used to chastise someone, eg, if ye don't shut up I'll gi'e ye a skelpin' roon' the lugs. (If you don't stop talking I'll smack you around the ears.) It can be versatile, a bit like masel'!

We need a proper emoji I tell ya!!

And, when your future plans to live in Scotland come to fruition you'll be fully equipped with all of the local vernacular. You're very welcome.......


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/13/2020 9:33 am

?* Just looks like a ? and a * on my screen. ?* Even when I pick it from the emojis.....

No matter, yer arse is still gettin' skelped........


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