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pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/2/2016 3:14 am

This is so beautiful and so eloquent - brought tears of joy to my eyes. May life continue to bring you and Pam blessings and happiness. Thank you for this lovely tribute of thanksgiving

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 10:36 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you dear! That's a wonderful photo!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 10:41 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This is so beautiful and so eloquent - brought tears of joy to my eyes. May life continue to bring you and Pam blessings and happiness. Thank you for this lovely tribute of thanksgiving
Thank you Poco. I sat thinking of what one thing I was most thankful for, and it all came back to Pam.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 1:23 pm

    Quoting rockkickass69v2:
    Agreed Kzoo!
    I'd have a go at her with your permission of course.
    I Know I Know get stepping. LOL!

It might be prudent to ask her first, if you know what I mean.

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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
11/2/2016 2:00 pm

there is nothing more endearing, than a man who is deeply n love with his woman.

you do indeed have much to be thankful for. love like this is rare, precious

and humbling.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 3:08 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    there is nothing more endearing, than a man who is deeply n love with his woman.

    you do indeed have much to be thankful for. love like this is rare, precious

    and humbling.
Thank you wicked- I'd have to be a fool not to see it. Pam and I have said that we wished we'd met thirty years before, and then immediately realized that it might not have worked thirty years earlier. We were very much the right two people in the right place at the right time. So, stay poised on the balls of your feet and ready to pounce! You never know what's coming!

I try to make a habit of telling people that I care about them. I didn't always do that, and it was my loss.



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08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
11/2/2016 4:58 pm

Bill this is a fantastic post. Loved it. There is so much wisdom and science in it. Both you and Pam did things the right way from the start.

"I sent a message... I told her it sounded as if we had a lot in common. The next day I got a pert message: “Yeah? Like what?” So…I told her like what and we began to correspond. It became fun very quickly. "

People including me got things backwards. Most relationships starts with romance (dopamine rush), once the dopamine high wears of, if they don't have a lot in common, attraction becomes distraction and repulsion.

True "soul mate" is one who shares the same core values, what ever they may be. As long as the core values are the same the couple could be totally different , fight like cats and dogs and still be madly in love and be very happy. The Brain chemical is oxytocin the love molecule. Oxytocin = crazy glue. Dopamine = crack.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


PenelopeClear 62F
54 posts
11/2/2016 5:10 pm

I've been away for a few weeks and this is the first blog I read. What a lovely story!!


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 7:04 pm

    Quoting 08540Tantrafun:
    Bill this is a fantastic post. Loved it. There is so much wisdom and science in it. Both you and Pam did things the right way from the start.

    "I sent a message... I told her it sounded as if we had a lot in common. The next day I got a pert message: “Yeah? Like what?” So…I told her like what and we began to correspond. It became fun very quickly. "

    People including me got things backwards. Most relationships starts with romance (dopamine rush), once the dopamine high wears of, if they don't have a lot in common, attraction becomes distraction and repulsion.

    True "soul mate" is one who shares the same core values, what ever they may be. As long as the core values are the same the couple could be totally different , fight like cats and dogs and still be madly in love and be very happy. The Brain chemical is oxytocin the love molecule. Oxytocin = crazy glue. Dopamine = crack.
Kama, I love you! Leave it to you to analyze this in just this way! And you have it right. I was looking for someone fun, someone to talk to. She wanted somebody to watch movies with, and just hang out. It turned out we had fun in the sack, too, and in no time at all we were in love.

Thank you, my friend.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/2/2016 7:08 pm

    Quoting PenelopeClear:
    I've been away for a few weeks and this is the first blog I read. What a lovely story!!
Thanks, Penelope. It's good to see you and I'm pleased you liked the post. Pam is the meaning in my life.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/3/2016 3:43 pm

    Quoting rockkickass69v2:
    I know what you mean.
    Tell Pam I'd like to have a go at her.
    Was that prudent enough? LOL!
    Have a good one my friends!

Might want to polish that up a bit....

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HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
11/4/2016 12:15 pm

this is absolutely fantastic my friend!

~manly hug~


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/4/2016 5:11 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    this is absolutely fantastic my friend!

    ~manly hug~
thank you Herman. It's my wife who's fantastic. She's the joy in my life.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/5/2016 11:55 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you dear. I have so many favorite pictures of her, but I especially like her expression in this one. She looks very demure and shy.

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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
11/6/2016 9:39 pm

you are sooooo lucky to have a lady like that beside you...very dedicated...i am glad you have a person like that in your life...


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/6/2016 9:57 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    you are sooooo lucky to have a lady like that beside you...very dedicated...i am glad you have a person like that in your life...
Thank you sweetheart. I feel very lucky.

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BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
11/11/2016 2:25 pm

You got the "Happy Ending" K, am truly so happy for you - and your lovely story gives us all hope! To find that 'special someone'! Just what it should be all about!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/11/2016 5:20 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    You got the "Happy Ending" K, am truly so happy for you - and your lovely story gives us all hope! To find that 'special someone'! Just what it should be all about!
Thank you Becca!

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Tanaka2017 58F
3 posts
11/19/2016 8:06 am

Such a nice story!


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/19/2016 9:28 am

Thank you!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/26/2016 8:41 pm

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Thank you, Miss K. It was a long hard road, but we won in the end.

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