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Re: Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles  

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/20/2016 3:59 pm

    Quoting  :

[blog damnedvixen], you are my guiding light!

Maybe I should add to my own profile portfolio.

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
5/21/2016 2:03 am

As a guiding ethos, I will stand opposed to anything which creates a second-class citizenry. And yes, there is a difference between the false label of wanting privileges and putting anyone -- or any group -- into a second-class position. Within North Carolina's "research triangle" region are some enlightened individuals... and they're mortified (and in some cases outraged) by this.

As for the current kerfuffle... I'm almost glad that my current state of deadlines has kept me from blogging and reading as much as I would have liked of late. (Well, I also like paying rent and eating regularly, too.) This whole business is ridiculous.

A tangential note: When you speak with folks who are investigating, or who have investigated, their gender or sexuality issues, there's often an undercurrent of personal pain. I suspect most of your readers -- the enlightened ones, at least -- know folks who fall into this category. There is nothing about this which does anything but exacerbate or remind them of their pain.

Lovely. And entirely unnecessary. I'm going back to read and write about people who have fun fucking their friends and acquaintances. Seems a lot healthier to me...

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/21/2016 7:38 am

    Quoting humorlife:
    As a guiding ethos, I will stand opposed to anything which creates a second-class citizenry. And yes, there is a difference between the false label of wanting privileges and putting anyone -- or any group -- into a second-class position. Within North Carolina's "research triangle" region are some enlightened individuals... and they're mortified (and in some cases outraged) by this.

    As for the current kerfuffle... I'm almost glad that my current state of deadlines has kept me from blogging and reading as much as I would have liked of late. (Well, I also like paying rent and eating regularly, too.) This whole business is ridiculous.

    A tangential note: When you speak with folks who are investigating, or who have investigated, their gender or sexuality issues, there's often an undercurrent of personal pain. I suspect most of your readers -- the enlightened ones, at least -- know folks who fall into this category. There is nothing about this which does anything but exacerbate or remind them of their pain.

    Lovely. And entirely unnecessary. I'm going back to read and write about people who have fun fucking their friends and acquaintances. Seems a lot healthier to me...
I wasn't thrilled to have this as a topic. But sometimes you actually have to say something with the words in a post. I prefer fun and games, but this topic kept aggravating me.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/21/2016 4:00 pm

Thanks, eMAN. Seriously, thanks. It means a lot to me.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/23/2016 2:49 pm

    Quoting IMaySayYes:
    What a great blog. It makes me sick the closed-mindedness, not to mention the hypocrisy, of our politicians.
Thank you. Me too.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/23/2016 4:04 pm

Thanks, eMAN. I've got a story I should be working on too but I've been neglecting that as well.

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thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
5/26/2016 4:44 am

It's called a family bathroom, most places already have them....thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


QUEENBEEV 59F
4200 posts
5/26/2016 7:32 am

The really sad and horribly disgusting part is this isn't her first time.

She is truly pathological...and for what? A top spot on a site that I'm sure she doesn't even want the people she works with knowing she even belongs to!

She is pathetic.

Oh...and I think we should start a club..."Blocked By She Who Used To Rule Blogville And It Feels So Good"

Membership in this club is not in any way exclusive...all you have to do is disagree with her or tell her something she doesn't want to hear.

I'm a charter member my darling!

Smooches!

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

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QUEENBEEV 59F
4200 posts
5/26/2016 7:51 am

Oh...I totally forgot...she not only blocked me...but REPORTED me to the site for having the audacity to speak her name while quoting what she said!

I had to write an APOLOGY letter to this head case!

Of course...it was positively daripppping with sarcasm and disdain!

Just for quoting her...

She has zero credibility in my eyes...just fluff and vile.

I'm happy people are finally starting to open their eyes...this needs to be a fun place to hang out with like minded people again.

Great post.

Smooches

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/26/2016 8:11 am

    Quoting thegrlsnme:
    It's called a family bathroom, most places already have them....thegrls
Just so!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/26/2016 8:21 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    The really sad and horribly disgusting part is this isn't her first time.

    She is truly pathological...and for what? A top spot on a site that I'm sure she doesn't even want the people she works with knowing she even belongs to!

    She is pathetic.

    Oh...and I think we should start a club..."Blocked By She Who Used To Rule Blogville And It Feels So Good"

    Membership in this club is not in any way exclusive...all you have to do is disagree with her or tell her something she doesn't want to hear.

    I'm a charter member my darling!

    Smooches!
That club has to be getting pretty big by now! And this is still a fun place to hang out. There are a lot of great bloggers here who make for very entertaining company.

I know it's not the first time, but this one seemed especially vile and the timing was there too, with political opportunists both in government and here trying to milk a polarizing non-issue for whatever they might stand to gain.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/26/2016 8:27 am

    Quoting QUEENBEEV:
    Oh...I totally forgot...she not only blocked me...but REPORTED me to the site for having the audacity to speak her name while quoting what she said!

    I had to write an APOLOGY letter to this head case!

    Of course...it was positively daripppping with sarcasm and disdain!

    Just for quoting her...

    She has zero credibility in my eyes...just fluff and vile.

    I'm happy people are finally starting to open their eyes...this needs to be a fun place to hang out with like minded people again.

    Great post.

    Smooches
Blogging here can be a kind of game, can't it? If you annoy the wrong person and make a technical mistake you know they'll take advantage of that! I haven't encountered many bloggers who behave that way. There's got to be something very magical about that damned list that you and I are missing.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/27/2016 9:20 am

You have done well with this post KZ. hugssssssss V

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/27/2016 10:55 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    You have done well with this post KZ. hugssssssss V
It got ten times more reads than I thought it would, V. Kind of interesting figuring as how I really didn't want to post it. I like discussion but I don't really much care for arguing, and an internet argument is a really hard sell to me. This seemed bound to provoke argument. I've been pleased that this was mostly discussion and that the commenters acquitted themselves so well.

Huggggs B

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davidalive 68M
3 posts
5/27/2016 1:29 pm

What I have noticed the most about Trans biological males who id as female
is they mostly want couples FF , MF, or F only.
Transgender is a way of saying am special & to look at me, give me a participation trophy for being meh. I can be as discriminate, yell, act out, dress,
curse and you have to accept it or the full force of young society, progressives,
leftists and know some states along with US Justice Department to help me hammer you.
We will eliminate Free Speech & Free Thought. Only what we say will be allowed or we yell DISCRIMINATION.
So here when someone searches for Women they must be very careful that looking at a biological born female when that is what they want.
I am starting a new group for people to join. Up is really down. Black is really white people, latins are asians, arabs are jews, etc.
Lets really be progressive.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/27/2016 2:26 pm

    Quoting davidalive:
    What I have noticed the most about Trans biological males who id as female
    is they mostly want couples FF , MF, or F only.
    Transgender is a way of saying am special & to look at me, give me a participation trophy for being meh. I can be as discriminate, yell, act out, dress,
    curse and you have to accept it or the full force of young society, progressives,
    leftists and know some states along with US Justice Department to help me hammer you.
    We will eliminate Free Speech & Free Thought. Only what we say will be allowed or we yell DISCRIMINATION.
    So here when someone searches for Women they must be very careful that looking at a biological born female when that is what they want.
    I am starting a new group for people to join. Up is really down. Black is really white people, latins are asians, arabs are jews, etc.
    Lets really be progressive.
What you describe isn't progressive at all and I disagree with you that progressives, liberals or for that matter anyone thinks that any kind of behavior by transgendered persons is acceptable. Every group is going to have some individuals who are rude or surly, and even bigoted. We're human- we can't escape that. You can reduce the concept of equity to absurdity if you want to. I prefer not to. I don't think it's absurd at all.

Good luck with your new group.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/27/2016 2:30 pm

Thanks again eMAN. Obviously there's some disagreement about what constitutes a "T" on the site or in the world at large. Even people who seem to more or less agree on the basics can't manage to come together about everything. There's enough variation in how people perceive their sexuality that I'm pretty comfortable with letting them simply define it for themselves. Our gender and sexuality have been shown to be about more than body parts.

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doctorstan365 56M
48 posts
5/29/2016 3:16 pm

I don't understand why Older Hookups doesn't just create a category for the catchall of people who identify as neither male or female. It would be very easy to do in terms of programming.

I'm all for equality and civil rights for all. As much as I have no interest in dating or hooking up with anyone who is not female, I think it would be nice for everyone is transgendered/cisgendered/etc had their own section on the site.

And you're right...you have to wonder about all the closeted Republican homosexuals who said they risked being converted to gayness if gay marriage were allowed. I've never had any doubts about my own gender preferences....


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/29/2016 8:03 pm

    Quoting doctorstan365:
    I don't understand why Older Hookups doesn't just create a category for the catchall of people who identify as neither male or female. It would be very easy to do in terms of programming.

    I'm all for equality and civil rights for all. As much as I have no interest in dating or hooking up with anyone who is not female, I think it would be nice for everyone is transgendered/cisgendered/etc had their own section on the site.

    And you're right...you have to wonder about all the closeted Republican homosexuals who said they risked being converted to gayness if gay marriage were allowed. I've never had any doubts about my own gender preferences....
They sort of do have another category- T. I'm not sure what you mean by their own section on the site. It kind of sounds like the way black people had their own section on busses back in the Jim Crow era, or how homosexuals had their own sections...in closets. Jews had their own sections in Warsaw during the Nazi occupation too. if I've taken your meaning wrong, I apologize in advance. That phrase "their own section" is confusing to me.

As far as "having their own section" the site's owners do have many different sites catering to different folks' interests, but all of them feed into the main site. We see their profiles and blog posts here with all the others and we share chat rooms. I like the idea of including everyone on all the sites. We're all human and sexual and I think it gives us all insight into what makes our fellow members tick.

Thanks for your comment. My post is mainly meant to point out the hypocrisy as well as the eventual futility of scapegoating other groups for mere temporary personal gain. There's a hell of a lot of dishonesty in that. It bothers me considerably that it's seen as the American way, as politics as usual. It IS true, but it still bugs me. We ought to hold ourselves to a higher standard.

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doctorstan365 56M
48 posts
5/30/2016 3:54 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    They sort of do have another category- T. I'm not sure what you mean by their own section on the site. It kind of sounds like the way black people had their own section on busses back in the Jim Crow era, or how homosexuals had their own sections...in closets. Jews had their own sections in Warsaw during the Nazi occupation too. if I've taken your meaning wrong, I apologize in advance. That phrase "their own section" is confusing to me.

    As far as "having their own section" the site's owners do have many different sites catering to different folks' interests, but all of them feed into the main site. We see their profiles and blog posts here with all the others and we share chat rooms. I like the idea of including everyone on all the sites. We're all human and sexual and I think it gives us all insight into what makes our fellow members tick.

    Thanks for your comment. My post is mainly meant to point out the hypocrisy as well as the eventual futility of scapegoating other groups for mere temporary personal gain. There's a hell of a lot of dishonesty in that. It bothers me considerably that it's seen as the American way, as politics as usual. It IS true, but it still bugs me. We ought to hold ourselves to a higher standard.
I'm sorry...I didn't look around Older Hookups more before writing my last comment. Yes, there already is a "TS/TV/TG " category, and that's what I was thinking of when I wrote "their own section." So, basically, there's no problem as far as I'm concerned. And I'm with you on the politics of gender/orientation scapegoating. Power on, bro.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/30/2016 9:01 am

    Quoting doctorstan365:
    I'm sorry...I didn't look around Older Hookups more before writing my last comment. Yes, there already is a "TS/TV/TG " category, and that's what I was thinking of when I wrote "their own section." So, basically, there's no problem as far as I'm concerned. And I'm with you on the politics of gender/orientation scapegoating. Power on, bro.
Thanks for coming back to clarify that. We're on the same page. I hope to see you here again!

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rm_needTScockM 40M
2 posts
5/30/2016 6:15 pm

mhm


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
5/30/2016 8:03 pm

Um...what?

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sexcbeach1 43M
314 posts
6/2/2016 6:12 am

Thank U for standing up to bigots & bullies! I have caught Ms S hating on trans people a couple of times. And when I confronted her on her blog, she called me a liar! she said that trans people are useless & cant provide life! And I said, well there is nuthin stopping them from IVF


sexcbeach1 43M
314 posts
6/2/2016 6:15 am

And what is the big deal about bathrooms!!! gee whiz... im no stranger to bush camping lol


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