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Nudity Among Friends  

CynicusMaximus 52M
399 posts
12/22/2018 3:52 am
Nudity Among Friends

Can a man and a woman remain friends without getting romantically involved?

I don't know.


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
12/22/2018 8:10 am

I suppose it is possible if they are brought up that way in a society where it is the norm.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/22/2018 8:16 am:
Like in Gene Roddenberry 's future society?

classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
12/22/2018 1:42 pm

I never thought much of Gene Roddenberry and I haven't read any other sf that deal effectively with this issue.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/22/2018 3:33 pm:
Yeah, that was sarcasm and a little rhetorical.

I don't think the idea is unattainable but as others are stating. Work place friends seem to be the easiest route.

IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/23/2018 12:33 am

    Quoting  :

Most guys would fuck most women if it would be casual and they weren't doing anything else right then. So if they want to be friends there is probably another reason as well.

Depends on the guy, if he's not able to get laid a guy could think making friends will get him a chance. If he can get laid then he must have some other reason to be friends with you.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 1:37 am:
Well, we were also talking perspectives, expectations and definitions of friendship too.

IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/23/2018 2:04 am

CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 7:37 pm:
Well, we were also talking perspectives, expectations and definitions of friendship too.


I tend to put my time into friendships that produce mutual practical benefits. I'd prefer to come around and work on your car or help build your deck than do something purely social. Naturally I only want to do that for someone who's willing to do something back for me . Otherwise we wouldn't be friends, I'd just be an unpaid servant.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 4:29 am:
So, you base your friendship on the chore list.

That's interesting.

IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/23/2018 2:20 am

Ok, to answer your question as I understand it, can a man and woman remain friends after sex/nudity?

Yes, provided that they are both blatant sluts and both continue fucking other people

Or

It happens when they are drunk or some other convenient excuse to pretend it didn't happen

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 4:31 am:
Lol.. interesting perspective.

Thanks.

IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/23/2018 8:50 am

CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 10:29 pm:
So, you base your friendship on the chore list.

That's interesting.


I have a high preference for productive activity over pure socialization. It makes sense to make friends with the same tendencies.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 10:55 am:
I usually just invite friends over to sit on the couch and watch Star Wars or something. I let a friend work on my car once and ended up with a stereo that only went on when I honked the horn.

HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
12/23/2018 10:08 am

Yes, I've had a female close friends for thirteen years, never seen her naked below the neck, and positive it won't change.


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 10:59 am:
Thank. I appreciate your answer.

No bravado and just a matter of fact.

HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
12/23/2018 1:21 pm

Quoting BiggLala, and I don't want to take over Cynicus'es blog either, but the answer to your question.

A 9, yes I would in a heart beat, would be a 10 but afraid it would ruin our friendship in the long run. We are too close to the same person, and yes she likes guys, lol


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/23/2018 3:50 pm:
I have no problem with you answering Lala.

Thanks for being able to participate though.

luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
12/27/2018 4:07 pm

I have maintained a friendship with a man for over 20 yrs. We meet up every so often just to talk, I will take his arm. hug here and there a kiss goodbye. Sometimes the attraction is very intense but it has never gone beyond a kiss on the cheek or a hug. It can work. I love him to death but sometime those 2 am text I would like to slap him!


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/27/2018 6:27 pm:
Lol, those 2 am texts.

How many have i sent you?
I think there are voicemails that you have of me crying uncontrollably too.

luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
12/27/2018 7:40 pm

not too many from you but those sexy pics keep my heart pumping! you are a SEXY man. You I wouldnt slap, I would have you in a fetal position if I got a hold of you. My hubby does say I have a way with my mouth


CynicusMaximus replies on 12/28/2018 6:24 am:
You're going to leave me crumpled up like an old CVS receipt, Lucie.

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