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am i being unreasonable?? i think not..  

duckie1452 71F
23 posts
2/19/2014 5:26 pm
am i being unreasonable?? i think not..

ok i have asked not to be hot listed not because i think i am all that but it sends the wrong message to me and others ,, i would prefer someone message me and chat. that way i can tell if i would be interested in meeting that person, just to "hot list" and never even chat with that person looks like u are collecting people. i try and answer anyone who sends me a message even if i know i am not interested.. just to be polite
i have only 1 person on this site cop a case of the *ss about this posted somewhere else i was a *itch. plus this guy has 3 profiles on here which says alot about him, i think.. so i am all done venting aka blogging about this..
everyone enjoy their time here ,, good luck finding what you are looking for...

Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
2/19/2014 5:45 pm

 Very good point about the hot list being what it really is...a load of rubbish!....


duckie1452 71F
4 posts
2/20/2014 7:15 pm

 well i never response to just a hot list,,,
i find it very insulting,,,


Voyage62 76M  
Ask me for a photo
69 posts
2/26/2014 8:36 pm

 I think that "hot listing" is just a first step. If interested, it allows one to follow up with a message - as I have just done....P


duckie1452 71F
4 posts
6/6/2014 8:00 pm

 i am just saying if u r interested in meeting someone here.. don't just hot list , or never post a picture,, make an effort!!


sinandgod 55M
3 posts
6/4/2018 3:07 am

 Yep I agree but I promise to people. I'll talk to you once and then I never communicate again don't say why or anything I hate that. Off-topic if you ever notice that you talked to some of this General cell phone bye when they get off the phone


upforany1962 61M

6/18/2018 9:07 am

 agreed


gramp4u 75M  
Ask me for a photo
41 posts
8/18/2018 3:35 pm

 I occasionally will hot list someone I haven't chatted with because my IM message wasn't answered. I presume that is because they are already chatting. If i think their profile is exceptionally interesting I will hot list them so I can tell when they are on messenger so I can send a message? Why do you assume something less than an appreciation. If you don't want to be hotlisted maybe you should take the time to answer all messages


BobBeckley53 71M
8 posts
9/16/2018 5:29 pm

 I just hotlist cute and sexy looking nurses to keep track of hem for future reference !!!


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