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Women send messages that get ignored?  

deamonsteed 51M
8 posts
9/5/2019 8:45 am
Women send messages that get ignored?

OK
I have be going down the blog hole for a bit and I have noticed a comment made by a lot of women.

They are ignored when then send a message.

If this is true, were the hell are the messages that I should have received in the many years that I have been on this site? I have not received a single unsolicited message from a real live women ever. What the hell? Is my profile that bad? Am I that Ugly compaired to every other guy?

_ is Older Hookups just loosing messages sent to me (other than the endless bot/cam girl/single picture, one line site generated filler profiles)
very possible
_ I come off as a complete jack ass on my profile
very possible, im really good at saying the wrong thing at the best possible time
_ Am I that unattractive
this one would be horribly ego bruising
_ Are the women who say there send messages, really not?
its a repeating theme across many blogs, so probably not

I have another thought as I have been reading these blogs (one that is ego saving)
It will offend some, and I sure I'll get accused of it being in the "Its not me, Its her" vein of chauvinism. But here I go anyway

Often with the complaint "My messages get ignored" is the complaint that guys say there open to any body type. But when it comes to actually seeing the women they get a alot of "Sorry your not my type"
These complaints are usually followed by "Why aren't they upfront about not liking X body type"
But havn't these women done pretty much the same thing when sending there ignored messages? Chosen someone based on their looks?
That's pretty much all you can base any opinion formed about a person on this site.

I guess that to me it seems like hypocrisy to say "The shallow jerk dosn't want me cause I don't have a flat stomach" when you choose to talk to him based on his six pack abs.

Sooo I know that this doesn't apply to everyone.
I know that it that this will offend a lot of women
I know that it might only be me trying to find a excuse for my short comings (hahha see I even set up the straight line for a whole line of small penis jokes for you)
I can only express my opinion.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/5/2019 12:04 pm

 I stopped sending messages when I got a few distasteful answers- so I know I didnt send you one LOL. plus your profile says you are attached and that doesnt rock my tower. I am more looking for the person that his wallet or abs
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deamonsteed replies on 9/5/2019 4:50 pm:
I always get a thrill when someone actually reads my profile. Thx

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
9/5/2019 11:19 am

 I'm not sure which blogs you are reading, but I've never seen women complain about messages not being answered.... the men complain all the time.
I like your profile.. it's very honest and witty


deamonsteed replies on 9/5/2019 11:30 am:
Thanks. I appreciate the praise for my literary sweat and tears.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
9/5/2019 9:56 am


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