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I WENT YEARS WITHOUT SEX  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 5:50 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    When I first got fucked?
    I guess I was in my mid-twenties. I quit a good job to take another, but THEY never put a contract on the table — I trusted THEM. I was squeezed out after a couple of months; I learned my lesson. 😶
I got fucked over at work too! I guess it goes with the territory.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 5:52 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    It was a college love that did it for me, and he became my spouse for 42 yrs before he passed. Ive gone several years without and thats where the BoB's come in handy. We all must do what we gotta do ~~
That was a long marriage. My longest marriage was four years and I'm now in my third year in my second marriage.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 5:58 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? - I was a late starter at 23 years old!
There's nothing with being a late starter so long as you don't finish!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 5:59 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I didn't "lose" my virginity, I know exactly where I left it ... 1976 at the age of 21. It was not good, bad, nor indifferent. It was a well-planned event that served it's purpose.

    The longest I've gone without since was 10 years ... after the death of my husband.
Losing your virginity is quite a strange term. My loss of virginity was also planned though there were a couple of false starts beforehand!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:00 am

    Quoting  :

I don't know anyone who didn't do missionary the first time, but then again it's not a question I ask a lot!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:01 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? As Billy Connolly once said, "I wont tell you how old I was, you'll only laugh at me". Let's put it this way, >25.

    Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience? Indifferent I guess. I was happy she "arrived" but that wasn't a reflection of my performance, it was more that we were lucky we rubbed in the right places as it were. However, I didn't. And never have. But the experience was exactly that - it was experience and I've become much better at it since then with other people.

    Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex? 11 years, and counting.
Having sex always gets better with practice.
I hope you'll soon stop counting!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:02 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    i was 18. my parents didn't allow me to date in HS.
    my first was well experienced. he was 21.
    the sex was phenomenal !! !!

    i've been going w/out for a while now...
    i honestly can't recall when i stopped?
    but nothing during COVID.
    it was before that so... it's been a while!
Covid has spoiled many a person's sex life!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:03 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Lost Our Virginity in the seat of a 1968 Chevy Pickup 😵 No protection but timed just right to Cumm on her inner thigh and on seat, she had also dampened the seat 🥴 Went for 5 years after the Loss of My Wife 😯🤠
A Chevy Pickup sounds a classic location for your loss of virginity!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:04 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I was about 16 or 17. I was pretty wild (at least to me), I never had any other experience that "wow" feeling and lucking out, no baby. We did not have a condom and of course I made a deposit in the wrong place . I have had several 6 month periods while in less than pleasant places over seas in the military Quite exotic catch up dates when I returned
I hope you now deposit in the right place!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:06 am

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I was sixteen, he was 20, we had been dating a while and ended up doing the deed on the front seat of his pickup truck. On his property in the woods that he later built a house on. I'm still trying to figure that out, he lived in an apartment at the time, but had a roommate, so that might have been the reason.

    Was it good, bad or indifferent? I can't remember, I just knew it was a milestone in my life at the time

    THe longest have I gone without since then? Over two years at one stretch.
My two years without sex felt like a life sentence as I then wrongly assumed that everyone else was getting los of sex!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:07 am

    Quoting exsquid46:
    Mr. spunkycumfun,

    "1.If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity?
    2.Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience?
    3.Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex?"

    1. I lost my virginity at almost 19 years old, to my first wife.

    2. I wish it could have been better. She had experience, and I had none. I am sure I left her unsatisfied that night.

    3. The longest has been 21 years and counting. I just given up on trying to find a woman that wants me.
I hope sex comes along very soon for you. Sometimes when you don't look for it, it comes out of the blue!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
9/10/2021 6:08 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Losing my virginity was a delightful experience. Felt incredible. I did not climax but I did feel amazing.
    Longest time without sex would be a few weeks when one of us has had surgery.
Only a few weeks without sex sounds like you've had a good sex life!


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