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Blogs > fllfigchk > The Ethical Slut

Changing Times  

fllfigchk 44F
97 posts
5/26/2016 6:16 pm

Last Read:
8/3/2016 5:16 am
Changing Times

Let me start by saying, I'm all for progress and moving things forward. I understand this is a site for the pursuit of that wonderful thing called sex. You can find a hook up as quickly as you can open an app. The opportunities for sex of all kinds is endless but in making the hunt a simple and quick process we've lost something. Small courtesies. The act of being gentlemen and ladies. A high percentage of men I have been in contact with through this site and others assume I should have a mattress strapped to my back, ready to sex up whoever. whenever or how ever. I get responses to my lack of interest such as. "Well what are you here for?" Well duh of course I'm here for that wonderful, all consuming, euphoric feeling that sex brings, but apparently I'm not allowed to have preferences. I also find that because you have a few pictures and videos on your profile, it becomes the sum total of who you are allowed to be as a sexual partner. Some of the partners I've met have left me wondering, WHAT ABOUT ME, WHAT ABOUT MY NEEDS??? Sure I enjoy and am very talented at giving head, but our conversations leading up to the meet stated that there are many other things I enjoy. I did not meet you to be a head-machine. I would like to meet someone who can do it all and is willing to do it all. Pigeonholed is a terrible place to be because it assures that only one person is getting what they want and need. Lets talk, meet, satisfy each other, rests, pet, fondle (even cuddle) and do it again. Lets not label or pigeonhole. Lets all get off. Lets bring back equal opportunity sex.

Icould 65M
3988 posts
5/26/2016 6:56 pm

 It is the way the site is promoted. They advertise women that want to fuck you now so that is some of the people attracted. They believe the advertising and should also drink the cool aid.
Until they market the site as place to meet a beautiful, intelligent to get know and if you are lucky have sex with not much will change.

There are some good people here but you are going to have to wade thru the crap to find them..

Happy wading
There you go
That's all and none of it tragic.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/26/2016 7:21 pm

 Lol at mattress strapped to your back. So true.


rocketman196972 66M

6/4/2016 4:09 pm

 I welcome the advances of women on this site and their ability to seek out the sexual needs.


luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
6/29/2016 6:55 pm

 so very, very true. and even more so because i am married and prefer single men. btw good to see you again on here.!! miss the good times


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