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Blogs > fllfigchk > The Ethical Slut

Rhythm  

fllfigchk 44F
97 posts
9/30/2007 10:54 pm

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2/13/2008 1:12 pm
Rhythm

I need someone to answer a question for me where when and how to men learn sexual rhythm? Is it leanred or is it innate? And what, if anything, can a woman do to get you on rhythm? As a woman I think its easier to find rhythm. You pick up your partners rhythm and go with it and if you're good you can change and he won't miss a beat. I recently had occasion to try out someone new. I really wasn't sure if I wanted to play with this particular guy because of his age. But against my better judgement I let him get what he's been after. Oh believe me like all men he talked a great game. I had spoken of the fact I like men of a certain age because most had acquired a certain finesse to the dance of sex. He defending his ego swore up and down that he had it. I believe I let him come over because I had to see if maybe I was being a bit too hasty in my blanket judgement of younger men. However, from moment one I realized (at least where he's concerned) my judgements were spot on. The particulars of what happened are not really worth mentioning except for the actual penetration. Which brings me back to my original questions. He had no rhythm whatsoever. I figured he would find it eventually but again I was wrong (I'm seriously off my game.) I have never in my life had just a disjointed fuck in all my years of being a good little slut . Nothing seems to go together. It basically felt like a fight the whole entire time. I was doing all the work trying to help him hit his stride. And I'm much worse off for all my efforts. So having said all of this someone please answer my questions. I need to know.

texasjoeyjoey 43M

10/8/2007 7:32 pm

 Well.....

In my HUMBLE opinion, here are a few points to consider:

1. The degree of rhythm depends on each person. That's why some are naturally better lovers than.
2. Experience. The conbination of skill and amount of "practice" usually helps.
3. Circumstances. The partner's skill or lack thereof. Location/surfaces of dance. Personal level of energy. Things like that play a part.

Those are my initial thoughts. Do you have any feedback?

ps. I would never claim to have great rhythm, regards if I do or don't.


fllfigchk 44F
39 posts
10/9/2007 11:17 am

 Well joeyjoey I agree with your points. All I know is that this particular guy wasn't working against any odd surface or weird positioning. So thats not it....and he had more than enough energy.I think where he's concerned it really comes down to the level of practice he's had. Maybe he'll get better with time and someone to teach him.


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