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Come here and give me some sugar!!!!  

wittychicjh 55F
39 posts
8/19/2010 8:02 pm

Last Read:
8/16/2013 5:09 am

Come here and give me some sugar!!!!


I have tackled foreplay, my love of cock, and sex. So now I think it is time to foray into the world of kissing. And not the quick smooch you give your partner before you leave for work...or the air kisses you give your European friends. No I am talking about the art of kissing during foreplay and sex. The things we do and do not do while our lips are touching.
Before I go further...I realise this might be a more difficult subject for my descriptive abilities...but I will certainly give it a go.

BASICS-Getting ready for kissing.
~If you are going to meet someone or they are coming to you...the following things help. Trust me. Brush your teeth!! Multiple times if you have to. Swish water around in your mouth afterwards. And use mouthwash if you need to. Chew minty gum...it helps produce saliva. And if you smoke...DO NOT DO IT on the way to someone's house. Hold off for a while. Cause trust me..nothing worse than trying to kiss a dry ashtray called a smokers mouth. I mean come on! I have kissed smokers that had perfectly fine breath. No problems. But I have kissed men that tasted like I imagined what a dry ashtray would taste like. That leaves a bad taste for days in my mind.
If you happen to be going to dinner and there is the possibility of some fun afterwards...take some gum...mouthwash..go to the bathroom and swish water around. I have actually brought a travel toothbrush and toothpaste with me if I know I am heading over after the club for a rendezvous. It is also why I always carry gum. Whatever you need to do. And lay off the raw onions and garlic paste. lol
Of course this is just a personal opinion...

KISSING 101
~There are things you can do as a kisser that will make the experience one of great erotic joy. I find that a man that can be multi faceted and kiss in many ways to be enjoyable. Not too much saliva (although that is sometimes uncontrollable) and not too much open mouth, fish, sucking your tonsils out kind of kissing. One of the best kissers I know...and I have told him this many times...has this way about him when he kisses. Our tongues intertwine. His lips are moist and his breath is clean. He does not stick his tongue in my mouth and try to remove my fillings. It's like his tongue 'dances' with mine.
I like it when a man will occasionally take my lower lip and 'suck' it. Kind of like when a man pulls a nipple a bit with his mouth. Use your tongue to lick their lips a bit. The teasing in kissing can be fun as well. Go in like you are going to kiss them...and when they are moving in as well...pull back just a bit at the right moment. They laugh and you can go in and kiss them full on. Use the lips just as intently as you do your tongue. Don't just go in and open your mouth...insert tongue for 10 minutes and go. 'Complete' the kiss. And go back again.
Running your hands through their hair or holding their head while you kiss them intensifies the intimacy of a kiss.
If you happen to be naked (either just your upper body or fully naked) putting your arms around their shoulders or perhaps your arm under theirs around the torso. Hugging them close to you.
And let me tell you...kissing on the lips is not all it is about. Use your mouth to kiss the neck or the shoulder. Nibble a bit on the ear. Push them up against the wall and kiss them deeply.

Kissing is one of the first things people do when they are adventuring into an intimate situation. It can be just a quick kiss to flirt. Those are fun.

I suppose the easiest way for me to advise you on this is look at it like a two-step. If you have ever watched two people country dance well...you know what I mean. Follow his or her lead. If your partner has a less flamboyant style of kissing...then tone it down. On the flip side if you notice that they have a flamboyant style and you are a bit reserved...amp it up a bit.
Just go with the flow.

Just please for the sake of the entire sexual experience....don't have nasty breath or ashtray mouth! PLEASE!!!!!


{=}Witty


luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
8/21/2010 7:21 pm

absolutely a great post!!! btw colgate has that little wisp thing out,great to carry in your purse right amount of paste and leaves your mouth fresh and clean. great item to carry for such "meeting"


wittychicjh replies on 8/22/2010 2:08 am:
I have some of those as well. lol

rm_Mzlilvixen 52F
3 posts
8/22/2010 6:06 am

Well, I have to agree no fresh breath or trying to suck my face off or give me a tonsilectomy is out of the question. I will just stop you and leave.

Also if you know you are having company, it does not hurt to rebrush your teeth if you know you are going to have sex at some point. I don't want to taste your dinner or whatever you were doing prior to me coming over. I am just saying...


Just2SeeU2 50M

12/8/2010 7:42 am

Another great post


rm_SAcpl4FWB 59M/53F
1 post
2/24/2012 6:52 pm

Wow, that was HOT just reading it!


Usernam_lol 35M

12/12/2012 10:00 am

Great read =]


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