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No fucks given  

partygald 41F
3081 posts
11/12/2019 5:00 am

Last Read:
3/21/2020 6:52 pm

No fucks given


Nope. None found here. Apparently. It’s only recent that I’ve found that to be amusing or cool when it’s intentional. When it’s not intentional though, becomes a whole other thing. Lemme explain

Yesterday, midway through trying to resolve something for work, the wifi crashed. After the mandatory few minutes of panicking and swearing, I grabbed the first piece of clothing I got my hands on (a loose-fitted neon pink sleeveless tank top and a pair of shorts) and rode out to a cafe to use the wifi. I rode to a cafe where I knew had reliable wifi (of course, right?) and also ran by this lady who I’ve come to regard as a friend. She’s a single mom, are grown up and flew the coop, and all that. So every time I’ve visited her cafe, we end up chatting for hours. Annnnyway. I got there, ordered my coffee, sat my ass in a corner and got to work. It was a little over an hour before I was done and finally looked up from my screen and noticed my surroundings.

I caught my friends eye and she came by from behind the counter. I was ready for her to give me grief for not offering her a proper greeting of stepping round the counter for a hug when I got in earlier, and I was ready to apologise and explain. But! Instead, this was the conversation starter

Her: what, the fuck, are you wearing?!
Me: huh? What? Uh..yeah, it’s a bit bright.
Her: No. Why are you out in your sleep clothes?!? Did you just jump out of bed?!
Me: Again. What? No! These are not my sleep clothes! I don’t have sleep clothes! I don’t have sleep clothes! I don’t wear anything to sleep!

I then explained what happened and how I panicked. At that point, we were both laughing our asses off. She told me I could have at least put a bra on cos in the hour when I was frantically alternating typing on my laptop and my phone, I “spilled out” of my top a few times. I was adjusting it subconsciously, but I kinda had my tits...hang on, tit out half the time. I admit, I was caught off guard. I wasn’t expecting that 😋. I apologised if I had caused anyone to leave, but she was still laughing and told me it wasn’t that big a deal. At least no one kicked up a fuss. It was at that point when she told me that I must really not give a fuck anymore. On one hand, I kinda don’t, but....now that I think I don’t, I do. Know what I mean? So I spent the whole day today thinking about it - I want to choose when I wanna give a fuck or not. Like I don’t want to unconsciously not give fucks. Unless it’s warranted. Lol
I dunno. Now I’m struggling a lil. Am I embarrassed? A little. Not too much about flashing though. 😋. More so about not being conscious....?

partygald 41F
1963 posts
11/12/2019 5:01 am

Argh! First world problems🙄
Heh...


picturefriendly 81M

11/12/2019 5:13 am

Wis i had been there. I am sure i would have enjoyed the show . Not that i am a dirty old man, its just that i enjoy a beautiful woman showing unaware she is. Things happen and hey enjoy and share what you have when you can .. Hugs and Kisses sweet lady.


RockKickAss69XXX 55M

11/12/2019 5:25 am

Those Beauties spilling out would cause a reaction that I could not control!


dogslife2live01 71M

11/12/2019 5:30 am

YES! YES! YES!
in a world where it matters
one must always give a fuck!

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Hotwife44Magnum 65F  
4 posts
11/12/2019 5:55 am

There is far more important things for people to get their nose out of joint over than a woman's breast. For those others who got some enjoyment from seeing a breast well Happy Birthday! Mi2cents Good Day


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
11/12/2019 8:18 am

Yeah...I think you must have "Given a Fuck" on some small level, or you would have rushed out with No Clothes on whatsoever. LOL

Perhaps you need to let that "Small Fuck Giver" in your sub-conscious stop your flight instinct during a panic, and ponder your clothing choice for just a few seconds before allowing you out the door.

Then again, did your friend say if her sales went up during your "Wardrobe Malfunction" or "Non-Function"? If so, maybe she'll give you discount to make a regular appearance - Kopi Susu Hahaha


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
11/12/2019 10:17 am

Just shows you are more dedicated to your work than your own appearance out in public. Well, at times anyway.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
11/12/2019 10:38 am

flashing seems to be more fun when you know someone is watching and turned on. I wouldn't be embarrassed, or either flashing or not being aware. You were in a safe place at your friends café.


STLshowoff 57M  
66 posts
12/13/2019 9:17 am

Seems like a perfect dress code for a coffee shop.


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/21/2020 2:57 am

I am rather exhibitionist, but what does it for me is the idea that someone else is enjoying the view. If it's just random people out in public who don't necessarily want a show, not so good.

Fortunately for you, female nudity is generally a lot less likely to inspire complaints.


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