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It's just another manic Mon-daay! Ah-ye-aah!  

partygald 41F
3085 posts
8/7/2017 2:12 am

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8/12/2017 12:00 am

It's just another manic Mon-daay! Ah-ye-aah!


Wish it was a Sun-daay!!

It's only been a few months away but rushing through the city again amidst rush hour is, well, fucking infuriating. I had all but forgotten the mad squeeze in every single public space and the jostling of pretty much everyone. Seriously though, are they all in that much of a hurry? Sheesh. Anyways

The couple I'm with wanted to check out the beaches here so yesterday I brought them to one here and we spent a whole day out. The weather fluctuated between drizzling and blazing scorching sun but overall it was ok. I did stump my fingers though playing Volleyball. We joined another group and played for a little before we went back. I also did facetimed the Husband at night and realised that ever since we've gone full blown swing, I'm actually craving him more, if that makes sense. Before we did, we actually both used to kinda stray a little and have a partner or two by the side. But ever since we've both decided to really come clean with each other, and that it's ok as long as we're both safe and aware, there's really been no need to stray. I dunno if I'm making sense, and am probably not doing my thoughts justice by not articulating this very well.

I've read about how swinging helps some couples and I Guess have never thought that it would help in this way. But hey, it's a nice surprise 😉

Oh! I had a really weird blast-from-the-past moment earlier! When I was a , about 12,13 years old there was an older girl that I knew. She must have been about 17 I think at the time. I remember she was the first person I actually saw having sex. She was dating a guy that was a few years older than her and she's been telling us (a few of us, all younger than her) about it. You know how it's like, her teling tales of it to a bunch of younger girls. So one time, she asked us if we wanted to watch, and of course we said yes. She told us to wait outside her window one particular night and she'd leave the window slightly open and the lights on.

We could creep up and peep in from outside, which we did, being curious and all. The only thing I remember from that was how the guy's dick seemed to hang to one side, and how it didn't look anything like the porn we had watched. Lol

Anyways, I think I saw her earlier in town. I had walked past her and recognised her but she didn't seem to recognise me. By the time I had placed where I knew her from she had gone so I didn't say anything to her. It was weird...surreal almost. Ha!

Anyhow. I thought that was funny how it dug up what was pretty much a forgotten memory. The only thing now though, is I can't get the image of her and that guy nude in their youthful form outta my head 😝

partygald 41F
1963 posts
8/7/2017 2:13 am

At the very least, I think I got a song in your head 😜


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
8/8/2017 5:51 pm

What a thing to recognize someone for!

This story makes me feel so sheltered. I didn't see anyone else having sex (other than in porn, which isn't much like real life) until long after I had done it myself.

When you were a kid, did you find the watching arousing, or just something that satisfied your curiosity? (I'm guessing that you didn't find it repulsive, or you might not have turned out to become a sex-positive adult.) Did you have more watching experiences before you tried it out for yourself?

The first time I thought I saw someone else having sex, I wasn't paying close attention, because I was busy having sex with someone else. I had met a woman at a party, and made a good enough impression to be invited to her table -- but it turned out that was to introduce me to her (hotel) roommate, because she had already found another guy. The four of us spent the night in the women's room, in separate beds. I hadn't really decided that I was interested in the roommate, but hearing the noise from the other side of the room got me worked up enough to go ahead with the roommate. It was only later the next day that I found out that the other two only got as far as noisy kissing. But the thrill was more that I was (possibly) being watched by the other couple than seeing them getting warmed up.

More recently, but still not all that recently, my wife and I went to a swing party, which had a voyeurism and exhibitionism theme. (The theme was just for inspiration, not any sort of expectation.) We had only planned to play with each other, which was good because we were the hottest couple there anyway. (There was one woman in my wife's league, and a few twenty-something boys in mine, but no other couples, which is more a sign that it was an all body types welcome thing than a boast about ourselves.) We watched others a little, but the apparently exaggerated moaning was kind of a turn off for my wife, and merely neutral for me. But going down on her in the big exhibitionism room was a great turn-on for me, and the intercourse was great. She was neutral about the others in the room (having had a lot of sex in college whether roommates were present or not, it didn't matter to her.) But she loves my oral, and loves seeing me turned on a lot, so it worked for her too.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
8/10/2017 10:33 pm

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    What a thing to recognize someone for!

    This story makes me feel so sheltered. I didn't see anyone else having sex (other than in porn, which isn't much like real life) until long after I had done it myself.

    When you were a kid, did you find the watching arousing, or just something that satisfied your curiosity? (I'm guessing that you didn't find it repulsive, or you might not have turned out to become a sex-positive adult.) Did you have more watching experiences before you tried it out for yourself?

    The first time I thought I saw someone else having sex, I wasn't paying close attention, because I was busy having sex with someone else. I had met a woman at a party, and made a good enough impression to be invited to her table -- but it turned out that was to introduce me to her (hotel) roommate, because she had already found another guy. The four of us spent the night in the women's room, in separate beds. I hadn't really decided that I was interested in the roommate, but hearing the noise from the other side of the room got me worked up enough to go ahead with the roommate. It was only later the next day that I found out that the other two only got as far as noisy kissing. But the thrill was more that I was (possibly) being watched by the other couple than seeing them getting warmed up.

    More recently, but still not all that recently, my wife and I went to a swing party, which had a voyeurism and exhibitionism theme. (The theme was just for inspiration, not any sort of expectation.) We had only planned to play with each other, which was good because we were the hottest couple there anyway. (There was one woman in my wife's league, and a few twenty-something boys in mine, but no other couples, which is more a sign that it was an all body types welcome thing than a boast about ourselves.) We watched others a little, but the apparently exaggerated moaning was kind of a turn off for my wife, and merely neutral for me. But going down on her in the big exhibitionism room was a great turn-on for me, and the intercourse was great. She was neutral about the others in the room (having had a lot of sex in college whether roommates were present or not, it didn't matter to her.) But she loves my oral, and loves seeing me turned on a lot, so it worked for her too.
It was soooo long ago but I remember not feeling anything other than curiosity at the time. I wasn't repulsed by it, but like I said, more....anti climatic in the sense of, "oh, that's it?". I Guess porn really does make one jaded about sex. And I only really started enjoying watching and being watched in that sense years later.

Thanks for stopping by 😊


partygald 41F
1963 posts
8/12/2017 12:00 am

Most welcome! Thanks for stopping by 😊


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