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Where is the love?
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Where is the love? Was having coffee yesterday and there was a group of guys sitting at the table behind us. It was a diverse group but I detected at least one American and one Australian accent among the group of 6 guys. Ok, boys. I'm guessing their average age is very close to very early 20s, but I digress. My whole point is, I overheard their conversation (it's kinda hard not to, they were speaking really loudly and I was right beside them) and amongst other things that were tossed around in their discussion, there was a lot of name calling. Which was fine cos none of it was offensive outrightly, and they do seem like they were having a lot of fun with it. The thing I don't get, and I find this in general, is that the terms 'pussy' and 'dicks' get used in a negative way. Heard this yesterday, "I swear you are such a pussy sometimes..", or "why are you such a dick?". I admit making referrals to the latter quite often in my own conversations with my friends. And that got me wondering, how or when did our genitals come to be associated with the negative behaviour of someone else? I mean, we put so much emphasis on them, take so much care in getting and seeking pleasure specifically from them. Yet, it's also so common to refer to them in such negative light. Hmm...I say we start a movement and turn things round. "You are such a dick!" should mean positive! Although I've never been called a pussy before. How does that work? I think only guys call other guys pussy...that needs a little bit of work. |
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I agree. If you call a bloke a dick it should be because he is an up standing guy! That said, a dick is not very smart. They have been known to get some folk into some serious trouble. They are, however, very manipulating and that is because of an inherent flaw in the design of men. We have two heads and only enough blood to use one at a time and gravity does not help either because the blood naturaly flows towards the lower.
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Not just the genitals but the things you do with them and even, OMG, religion. I often wondered where is the connection that something that no longer works is said to be intercoursed......in much stronger language of course. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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I dunno, let's try and say the following in our most romantic mindset and sensuous voice, with feeling: Oh, honey, yes honey, yes, yes, yes, you are such a dick, honey... I can only tell you from my (guy's) perspective, I don't think my mind's wired to accept that as a compliment... One might see ardour being doused actually!  Conversely, do you think if a guy says the same thing to you (being a fine woman and all) that you could perhaps find it a turn on?  Inquisitive minds certainly are aroused and wanna know!
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