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Virture has its rewards , as does its opposite  

40Deuce 46M
4635 posts
11/30/2015 6:31 pm

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12/4/2015 7:11 am

Virture has its rewards , as does its opposite


"Nasty strech marks, Wouldn't fuck it sure don't want to pay to watch it fuck. Big thumbs down. How about some desirable women not just the first fat skank that will take it in the ass"

I was watching a video here on the Older Hookups and that was the first comment . There are a lot of assholes on Older Hookups , not exactly a newsflash right ? But this really bugged me . Why would you say something like that ? If you don't like it you don't have to watch it - why do you have to demean the person who posted the video ? Honestly what is the point ? If you're an evil bastard I can see insulting someone in person , you get to enjoy hurting their feelings , but what do you get out of impersonal insults where you can't savor the horrible effects of what you did ?

And we can say all the standard stuff , this guy needs to grow up , he has to tear other people down to make himself feel better , he's a sexless loser who's lashing out , report him , etc. etc. ad nauseam but it doesn't matter , he did it , it happens , he "won" . What is wrong with people ? I really don't know .

And the kick is , and this is not the point at all what are the chances that the dude who posted that comment is desirable himself ? Pretty low I would imagine . Studly dudes have to have something better to do than hang around online leaving nasty comments right ? Something equally horrible maybe , but not that ?

Moving on , I was reminded recently of a conversation I had with an Older Hookups about how meeting at her house on our first encounter was a bad idea . She was implying we should have met in a public place or barring that ay my place , but if you ask me its safer inviting someone to your house then inverse . Why ? Then you have the home field advantage . When I invite someone over here I have weapons hidden all over the place and booby-traps , and I make sure I sit where I can access said weapons and easily maneuver the other person into a trap if they turn out to be a crazy murderer . If I'm going to their house I'm at a disadvantage - I don't know the layout , I don't know anything about it . You know what they say , location , location , location .

Also I feel like if they want to get you , meeting in public doesn't matter - they're going to get you one way or the other . They have accomplices around the corner in a van or some such .

Aren't I just a bundle of cheer today .

Ecce quam bonum et quam iucundum habitare fratres in unum

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bamaman359 64M  
1624 posts
11/30/2015 6:40 pm

I agree with u he should be kicked out of Older Hookups


iwalkstilts 49M
2869 posts
11/30/2015 6:45 pm

Bundle of cheer with valid points.
Remember that scene in Bambi?
The baby rabbit said "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say nothing at all"
: )


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:11 am:
Never saw it actually , but I'll take your word for it

superbjversion2 69F  
24388 posts
11/30/2015 8:32 pm

Meeting anyone from the online world can be a crap shoot and has an element of danger.

Sometimes the benefit outweighs the risk.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:12 am:
Same as meeting a person from the "real" world eh ?

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
11/30/2015 8:53 pm

In public is the way to go, although when I was more foolish I ignored that a couple times. And am alive to tell the tale!

As for the jackass who left that comment - 1) yes he is probably not real studly himself and 2) he's an idiot if he thinks fantastically gorgeous women are providing free labor to Ay F F by posting videos here. Well, I suppose there may be a few but they're the exceptions rather than the rule.


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:12 am:
Way to survive Smarty !

wildoats19622 62M
3526 posts
11/30/2015 11:14 pm

Psalm 133, I checked.

Back in the day people used to tell me to go to church to meet women.

They wouldn't tell me which churches had Bacchanalia. Wiki makes them sound fun.

"The reformed Bacchanalia rites may have been merged with the Liberalia festival. Bacchus, Liber and Dionysus became virtually interchangeable from the late Republican era onward, and their mystery cults persisted well into the Roman Imperial era."

Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:13 am:
Don't people die at those things sometime ?

lustasaurus 46F
1838 posts
12/1/2015 11:29 am

Men feel entitled to render commentary on women's appearance, grooming standards, and overall value to said men. It doesn't matter what the men look like - that's not the point. And it's not just the "bad" ones; it's baked into society so much that we only notice the ones who are off the rails.

I encountered some nasty humans when I was camming here, though the derogatory comments were outnumbered by the entitlement to see/have more (on their schedules, having nothing to do with my interests). I moved to a paid site where members are much more respectful. Their sense of entitlement is earned and they know that.

There was a time when strangers from this site and from CL would show up at my door for first meets. There was never any chemistry in it for me. But they had expectations, obviously, and by that point it's hard to turn someone down without making it all awkward (especially if you're a Minnesotan). "Suck it up and get through it" became my mantra for these experiences, and 10 years later I'm still kinda convalescing in sexual terror. So, yeah, no first meets at my place either.


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:15 am:
I would be fine with a little awkwardness in that scenario myself but to each their own . Oh , no , I'm doing the thing you just said ! It IS baked into society !

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
12/1/2015 2:34 pm

Meet in a bar. That way you can have a few before she gets there so that you are properly anaesthetized. It won't matter if she has accomplices, or booby-traps, or even stretch marks...

I've seen a few things on this site that have made me recoil in disgust, but I haven't left a nasty comment. This isn't because I'm particularly nice, just lazy.


40Deuce replies on 12/4/2015 7:16 am:
No one ever talks about the positive aspects of laziness

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